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Recent content by dude87

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    dating in group setting

    Hey Kayli, Thanks for being able to see it in ur perspective and help making more sense into what I'm feeling. I've never thought of it as an introvert-extrovert personality difference, now you've mentioned it, it really makes sense coz I know for myself that I'm an introvert and she might be a...
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    dating in group setting

    Ive been officially dating this girl for just more than 4 months now whilst having been good friends for 1 and a half years before that. We recently exchanged 'i love you's and kisses on the cheeks before Christmas because we realise how much we care for one another. However when we go out with...
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    good Christian books on dating and courtship

    Has anyone read or recommend "Don't Date Naked", by Michael and Amy Smalley. Is it worth the read?
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    Purposes?

    If the purpose of being in a courting/dating is marriage, why do people start having a relationship at such an early age? eg in their teens? Coz if your thinking of marriage, you gota be prepared. eg financially to find your own place etc... such a big step!! I mean how long does it take to...
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    I think I'm in love...long...need help plz!

    She's been a Christian longer than I have been, I don't believe in missionary dating!! Thanks heaps blue impulse! you've really helped me untangle a lot of mixed feelings and emotions thats going inside of me! I thank you so much for bringing the fact that God>human, and it's sobering to hear...
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    I think I'm in love...long...need help plz!

    We are both in 2nd yr of uni, I've known her since enrolment day and right now I cant stop thinking about her. There is this deep exacerbating emotion in me that wants me to tell her how I really feel about her. I want her to know that I got a crush on her because my feelings are fully bottled...