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Recent content by dsboy19

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    I need help

    Point well taken. You're exactly right, and I know I have the Spirit of God in me and if I surrender, He will take it away. Well, I surrender. I surrender to lust, to pornography, to looking at women as objects and something to be looked at. It is time to grow up and become the husband God...
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    Please! Please Help!!!!

    Wow sweetie, my heart breaks for you. The important thing is to know that you made a mistake, and if you asked, you are forgiven by God. One lesson from the Bible we learn is that we reap what we sow. I am pleased to hear that you are not having an abortion, and this child will be a blessing...
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    I need help

    I guess my definition of real sex is different than yours. Sex is only what it was meant to be, and thus I have never had "real sex" and am still a virgin in my eyes. I did not contract any STDs, she used her mouth...nothing more and it has been a week and I am fine. It was a one-time, stupid...
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    I need prayer

    thank you hypostatic. I feel comforted right now and a peace like everything is gonna be alright. I understand you reap what you sow, but I think the grief over what I have reaped is what I am sowing.
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    I need help

    I am 22 years old and engaged to be married in October. I have struggled with looking at pornography since I was 13 on and off and I am really being attacked recently. For some reason, the other day I went and got a prostitute to perform oral sex on me. I will never do that again and I feel...
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    I need prayer

    I need prayer from my brothers and sisters in Christ. I am 22 years old and am engaged to get married. I have struggled with looking at pornography off and on since I was 13. We get married in 3 months, and I am really being attacked right now spiritually. I have so many bad thoughts in my...