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Recent content by DrSteve

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    TTC after Loss

    YEAH! Congratulations to you both! I'll be praying for you.
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    Inappropriate sexual behavior?

    I would love to see you try to justify this statement.
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    sex before married =[

    After reading the original post, I skimmed through the replies. So, pardon me if I ask a question or make an assumption about something that was answered above. I'm going to guess the OP and his girlfriend are very young. That's because I can't see people in their 30s or 40s talking about...
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    Long distance relationship trouble, help?

    This isn't the answer you want to read, but hear me out: I think it's best for you to split up and find partners close to where you live. This is the voice of experience here; I've been in an almost identical situation. Started dating a woman during my junior year of college. She was a senior...
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    Men: could you be away from your pregnant wife?

    About two months before our son was born, I went away for two nights on a business trip. When I came home, it was 10 p.m., and my wife was asleep. I came into the bedroom, gave her a kiss, and said "Hi, honey, I'm home." (Yes, she wanted me to wake her up when I got there.) She told me that...
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    Was the one that got away ever someone you argued with a lot?

    I agree with this. The ones who got away are gone. They're not coming back. And, thank God for that. In my case, the ones who got away were dishonest, inconsiderate, and didn't love me as much as I loved them. My ex G/F's are all married now, so it's for someone else to deal with. On any...
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    Should spouses try to maintain their appearance for each other?

    ^^ THIS! I try to keep up my appearance, and it's not just for my spouse's enjoyment. There is a such thing as personal pride. I like to look good and dress nicely. Also, I work in a professional environment and projecting the right image is very important. You've probably heard the saying...
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    Don't like kids. Wife wants kid. (great)

    Steel, I've been there and done that. My wife and I fought for a while about the whole kids issue. I was never a "kid person". She was always gung ho about becoming a mom. I wanted to become a dad, but figured it would wait until whenever. I wanted to enjoy couple time without being chained down...
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    TTC after Loss

    I, too, am very sorry for your loss. I won't even pretend that I have the slightest idea what you and your husband feel. I wish you the best as you try to conceive. Allow yourselves to be carried by the passion you feel for each other. You and your husband are truly two brave hearts.
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    Use Of FACEBOOK Destroys Marriages

    I think it's a stretch to say Facebook is satanic in nature. While it clearly has been used for evil purposes, it can also be used for purposes of good. Facebook has been a great way for me to catch up with friends from college, share photos of my son, and send messages to people. However, I...