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Recent content by DoubleK

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    Thinking challenge!

    This is something that I have thought about before. I can think of a few reasons that have nothing to do with religion. However, IMO what's in the Bible is the best reason not to have pre-marital sex. Here are some I can think of: -Abstinence is the only 100% effective in preventing STDs and...
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    Never date/marry?

    Don't misunderstand my post, I am not saying that I don't want to marry (I actually would like to). However, at times it seems like I'll never meet anyone I'd want to marry, so this is why the thought of not marrying has entered my mind.
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    Never date/marry?

    I think I would like to get married someday. However, the thought of never being married has crossed my mind before and I do think it is a possibility. I've never had a girlfriend and don't see that changing anytime in the near future. However, if God really does have plans for me to marry, I'm...
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    Being called sheltered-- anyone had strict parents or simply didn't do much?

    LOL, I was thinking the exact same thing when I read this. As far as I know there aren't any good places to go camping in the Bronx. I grew up on the other side of the Hudson in suburban NJ and although I myself have camped in tents (through Boy Scouting), the overwhelming majority of people I...
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    Anyone in New Jersey?

    Good to see someone else from Rutgers here, though I'm up in Piscataway (Livingston College). Thanks Fred, the Scarlet Knights were awesome this year, though I was very disappointed when the lost to West Virginia and ended up in the Texas Bowl.
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    I'm trippin

    yes, it's a sin and is something that I (and probably almost all other men) have stuggled with. While the bible does not have the word masturbation in it, it does mention lust. I think this is probably the best quote on the subject. Matt 5:28- But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman...
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    Music

    I listen to a lot of different types of music, pop, rock, classic rock, dance. I like both old music and new music, so will listen to both current music, as well as any music from the past 40-50 years. I don't like rap/hip-hop, but I do like country, but rarely listen to it, New York hasn't had...
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    I cannot be friends with my Jewish classmates

    Dave, great post! I never had problem with this, some of my best friends are jewish, muslim, other religions, even agnostic. There are a lot of great people out there who happen to have different beliefs that you. Although Jews and Muslims may have different beliefs about who Jesus was, a lot of...
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    Pornography - A Question for the Guys

    I'm sure there are some guys who have never looked at porn. However, I would have to believe that most do (or have in the past), even if they don't talk about it. I'll try to find some statistics that show this.Don't get me wrong, I think the internet is great, but it is the reason why so many...
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    Pornography - A Question for the Guys

    That's true, I am usually more tempted to look at porn when I have a lot of stress.
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    Pornography - A Question for the Guys

    I also struggle with an addiction to porn. I agree, porn is an exetremely powerful addiction. I been trying to quit for about 2 years now. Since then there have been times that I've gone for a few months without it, only to become addicted again. So, to answer the question, yes I still look at...
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    Anyone in the NYC area?

    I live a few minutes away from NYC, in Bergen County.
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    For New Jersey People....

    lol, I live within 10 minutes of 5 malls. One of them is just a few blocks away.
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    any New Jersey people?

    I think that it can be split up into two parts... New York and Philadelphia, lol