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Recent content by DMendrone

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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    I appreciate the offer, but I have to decline because I disagree. It's not a matter of beating the flesh. Beauty is subjective. It's more like sodas. I like sodas, my favorite is Mr. Pibb. The one soda I absolutely hate though is Big Red. I will not tough out being content with a Big Red cistern...
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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    Rereading this again. I can't say I agree with it. I honestly do not understand what all of this means but "an act of the will?" I'm not going to force myself to be attracted to someone. That ignores an underlying problem I would probably have. I know someone who is gay, he tried to like girls...
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    If marry someone you're not attracted to, is it okay to fantasize about someone else?

    I know this is from 2011 but I have to agree with er72 here. Sure people age and get wrinkly but men are WIRED to like the physical aspect of a woman. Not only that but Paul states that sexual desire is a factor for getting married. Sure, other things are more important such as a person of godly...
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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    Yeah I've only been able to attract 2s and 3s sadly... What would you suggest?
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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    Thank you! I was hoping someone would say that!
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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    The decision to marry is not to be taken lightly. I have no intention of ever going through a divorce. When I say "I do" I'm in it for 40+ years or more. If you ask me, better to wait and make the best choice than to settle. Besides, God knows best.
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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    I appreciate your insight. I am not going to lie to you I am like...really superficial. I think about the outside way more than I do the inside. I know they say the inside is more important and "charm is deceptive, beauty is fleeting" but I can't help but stress that the outside is also really...
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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    So how important do you think physical attraction is?
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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    I like easygoing laid back kind of women. I don't like competitive or someone who always feels like they have to be right. Yes I would describe myself as strong willed and stubborn.
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    I'm fearing I will be permanently single as well as marrying someone I will not like

    Thanks for the insight. As far as what I can be for her I was only able to come up with 5 things unfortunately. A man who loves God A man who loves her for who she is A man who doesn't look at porn or commits adultery A man whose financially stable A man whose responsible. As far as my list I...