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Recent content by ditzydancer86

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    Does It Matter Who Asks?

    Definitely agree Hediru, even though I am very big on not following traditional gender roles (mainly because I am very independent) it is definitely the man's place to ask a woman to marry him. I have a pretty good idea on how guys work, seeing as I am the only girl under 40 in my family, and if...
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    Questions...

    thank you!!! lol, I realize that what i first said is completely different, but nonetheless, thanks a bunch :)
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    Questions...

    now that is something i can definitely work with. He does accept Christ as his Savior, but he doesn't neccissarily understand why. I've never been good with expressing what I am trying to say, but now I am getting somewhere. I guess what I was trying to say in the origional, is that he does...
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    Questions...

    he is not sexually immoral in the first place, you all need to stop assuming that just because he does not go to church all the time and is unsure of his faith does not mean that he pracices immoral things. He is a virgin as well, and wants to stay that way until marriage. He is confused about...
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    first of all, he doesn't lead me away from my faith at all, and second of all, as a friend, if i led him towards Christ, and he believed once again and we dated, he would still be the same person, except he would have Christ in his heart. It's not that he doesn't believe, he just doesn't like...
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    hrmmm, what you say does have a lot of truth in it, and I'm not pushing him to do something that he doesn't want. All I know I can do, is help him out with his decision, being as unbiased as i can, I'm not one to give up on people, especially those close to my heart. We already have a bond that...
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    I love my boyfriend a lot, and my faith is very important to me, however, he is agnostic. He used to be a practicing Methodist, but quit because he did not like the way his church translated the Bible teachings into our lives today. I know he loves me a lot and know how important my faith is to...
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    Is it natural for a 21 year old to find sex disgusting?

    I really think that your whole problem with sex, is that you just haven't found the right person. I myself was disgusted with the thought of intercourse, until I met my current boyfriend. I'm head over heels for him, and we have talked about getting married, and I cannot wait for that to happen...