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Recent content by desperate80

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    Wasted life

    Thank you very much for the responses. I am waiting for a detox and there's a waiting list in the UK, but yes it's very difficult this disease (alcoholism), especially with hormonal condition but I've been trying to stop since 2011 when my dr told me he would treat me if I managed to stay sober...
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    Wasted life

    On the 7th of September I'll be 37. Alcoholic and unemployed since 2005 age 25. Can I still turn my life around? I also have a medical hormonal condition which needs treating.
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    Is this true

    "God only helps those who help themselves?" Seek the truth and the truth will be found?" I have medical issues and no help on NHS so far. But, I'm wasting my life away by drinking alcohol. I'm paying for private rehab next Tuesday using my fathers inheritance who sadly passed away last August...
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    Lying to holy people

    I've been trying to quit alcohol for years. I'm seeing a doctor for hormone treatment but I keep pushing them back because of drinking. A priest did a prayer on me to stop drinking early last year. I broke it and carried on. I saw the priest in August and told him I'd stopped when I hadn't...