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Recent content by desertdweller

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    A big dilemma

    As some people say, being your own attorney is taking a fool as defender. This is what it now looks like. I am a very poor defender of my case. Unfortunately, I am the only defender who accepted to bring my case to court. To answer the multiple questions about what I am doing on this Forum, I...
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    A big dilemma

    I have read that article about polygamy according to the Bible and, even with what is left of my Christianity I am shocked. If I had the guy who wrote that article in front of me, I would tell him the way I consider his document, and I will have a hard time to stay composed and polite. It is...
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    A big dilemma

    I have to add this because I missed some messages Tangefedd. If you lived in the Middle East, you would see hundred of racially mixed couples. Most of the time very happy. Yes the men are usually quite wealthy and the women are usually poor by western standard. But that is why we have decided...
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    A big dilemma

    OK, I thank you all for all the advises and the information. Now I better know where I stand. I am in contact with lawyers in both my countries of origin (I have double nationality) and guess what, il looks like my case, if presented a certain way can be sustained juridically. I spare you...
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    A big dilemma

    Yes Charligirl, I feel like a lawyer defending a cause. So I am entitled to use the same sources as you do. You want to demonstrate we are living in sin. We want to demonstrate that we live in sin, not by the Bible, but by the law of man. In the eyes of God, we are not. Divorce. Granted, I...
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    A big dilemma

    I am sorry if I look like cutting hairs but it seems that there are some problems in the rules. And do not worry, it takes more to offend me, even comparing the devotions of Aster and Nagusti to a cult. I know that for one specific creed, every other creeds are too often considered a cults...
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    A big dilemma

    Thanks for the feedback. We would like to make a few records straight. First of all, all what I write is supervised by Aster and Nagusti. They are currently sitting next to me, and make suggestion about additions and ways to explain things, and I will not post anything unless we all three...
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    A big dilemma

    I am Canadian, live in the Middle East and I am an ex-RC. I still believe in JC, but I have problems with the current Church’s dogmatism. A new pope with better ideas might bring me back. I am still in the middle of a messy contested divorce, back home. Over a year ago, I met through...