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Recent content by dersaemann

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    Seeking a Wife

    Yes, you totally get me WinterAngel. And thank you so much for your mindful answer and prayers. I'm thankful also to all the other members who read and answered my post in a positive light. The duty of a husband is to be the perfect gentleman, in every conceivable manner. The wife should...
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    so I can give a bit more background on her story: She was born in Germany and both her parents are Ukrainian. It does seem like her family, like many other Ukrainians, is deeply religious, but she, being a university student, like me, and living in a Germany that sadly got infested by marxist...
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    Seeking a Wife

    I do think this is correct. I am only being put in doubt because of the difficulty of actually finding a decent wife and also because I'm not so young anymore and have been already outstandingly patient my whole life. It is definitely not for the lack of wanting a wife, that I have not yet found...
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    Seeking a Wife

    These are indeed the defects I've found in her. I'm very aware of the importance of sobriety and purity for God, besides being led by the right examples. That's why I pointed these out as alarming signs, but I don't think it is anything so crucial that I shouldn't be able to straighten her up if...
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    Seeking a Wife

    how do I even get to love someone in this way without getting romantically involved with her? I know times have changed and secular dating has pretty much become the way of finding a spouse, but how can I know if I romantically love someone or not through righteous and pure ways?
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    Seeking a Wife

    Why do you say so? Right now I'm not physically frequenting any church, but I read and study the Bible regularly and have tried already seeking biblical information on the matter.
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    Seeking a Wife

    Hello dear brothers in Christ, this is my first post in this forum and I'm seeking advice regarding courting and marriage. First, some background about me. I'm 27 yo, recently graduated from University and will start living away from my family. I feel like soon it would be a suitable time for...