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Recent content by Denali25

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    Breaking off 3-Year Relationship

    Thanks for your input. May I ask how long you have been dating so far? As far as dating around I just don't want to end up marrying before Ive seen what its like to have a relationship with many different guys. I dont want to be married and look back wishing that I had done that before marrying...
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    Breaking off 3-Year Relationship

    Im a young adult and I met and started dating this guy while we were both still in High School. That was three years ago. Now he's working on a degree in Political Science at an expensive Private school... while I'm trying to get into the Air Force ROTC and go to a public college for a nursing...
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    I love him, can I make love to him?

    Good for you on being humble. Its refreshing to see on forum boards where people are often times so rude.
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    *Breaking off My 3-Year Relationship*

    Thanks. Im just worried since the break will probably be at least for a few months. I dont know for sure if Im ready for this.... He's my best friend. But Ive not been settled about 'us' for quite a while.
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    *Breaking off My 3-Year Relationship*

    Im a young adult and I met and started dating this guy while we were both still in High School. That was three years ago. Now he's working on a degree in Political Science at an expensive Private school... while I'm trying to get into the Air Force ROTC and go to a public college for a nursing...
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    Need some advice

    Im sad to say it... but you should just let it go. There isnt much you can, nor should do in this situation. Your ex has been with you a long time and the truth is that people change. Look at this as an opportunity to grow closer to christ in your time of need. Take heart, this may be the close...
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    Hm.....?

    From a girl's perpective I can say that even if she is stating how she feels (And she feels its okay), that doesnt mean it's actually a good idea. I'm sure you know that sex is for marriage so I wont hit on that point, but going further than I imagine you are at now is just asking for trouble. I...
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    Last night I did possibly the worst thing I've ever done in my life. I'm so ashamed..

    I feel your pain. But don't beat yourself up about it anymore than you have. Simply repent to God and move on. He has already forgiven you. Let this experience be a positive one, helping you to realize that the high road is the more desireable one.
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    If mastubation is wrong, how do I stop?

    Thanks Floatingaxe... You possed some idea about taboo that I have never thought about before. And to digit... thanks for the response, those are some good ideas... i'll put them into practice. And to Gukkor, thanks for trying to keep the peace :)
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    If mastubation is wrong, how do I stop?

    To bloodwashesPilgrim... This is not the first board that I have seen you on, I noticed that you have a loving and sensible way of getting things across to people, thank you. Thanks as well for the prayer, its encouraging and btw, I have already told someone before... but that person proved to...
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    If mastubation is wrong, how do I stop?

    Thank you for the advice, and I happen to own that book, but Ive never read it because.... I dont know if anybody here knows this yet.. I'm a girl. lol, just thought I'd clear that up. Thanks Dmagoh for that tip (that was helpfull). And thank you floatingaxe... Thats been some advice I can...
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    If mastubation is wrong, how do I stop?

    Well I have to go to bed now, but I'll be back on in the morning, so please feel free to coment while I'm gone, be sure that what you say will get read, and I may reply to you specifically One more thing, please dont turn this board into a debate, I just need some help, and I'm ready to...
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    If mastubation is wrong, how do I stop?

    Anyone else out there with some advice?... Pretty Please :)
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    If mastubation is wrong, how do I stop?

    Yeah but, Its not about how much I do it, Its about the fact that I can even go months without doing it if I try to quit, and I can do really well.... But eventually I fall back into it... I feel like a slave. I know that Its not good to be a slave to anything. Sigh* I'm really confused (thanks...
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    If mastubation is wrong, how do I stop?

    I am still unsure whether or not masturbation is wrong or not, but I'm tired of the endless and confusing debates in which both sides have good points. So.... what I want to talk about is how to quit... I have been trying to quit for three years because I hate the endless guilt (I'm not sure...