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Recent content by Dekay

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    How do I not give up?

    Well by way of update and to answer this we've finally spent time talking since my post after a prolonged silence. My wife has retracted the statement and rather says that she hates the circumstances we find ourselves in. Going through the things I mentioned above with her her feeling remains...
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    How do I not give up?

    Yes, we are both born again. Though my wife by her own admission isn't where she is supposed to be in that relationship either anymore. Even during our attempt at The Marriage Course I would be the one to take initiative for prayers. I do not believe that she is depressed. Any mention of her...
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    How do I not give up?

    My wife and I have been together for 23 years, that's a long time to try and cover in a post such as this. We have 2 wonderful kids (13 and 10), a good life by all standards, and lack for nothing. I love my wife, kids and our little family dearly and there is nothing I wouldn't give to them...