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Recent content by deeplygrieved

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    Premarital sex

    Aww. Thanks for your kind words, Bro. As for bringing him around to my way of thinking... He clearly has his own stance which he is going by... I'm just worried that we'll wind up breaking up unless one of us can accept the others' viewpoint. :( I do feel that he is committed to the...
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    What do you think ?

    I think you're fine. Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher! 7 yrs apart is nothing to worry about. How does she feel about you? Does she also want to spend the rest of her life with you? If so, then it's all good! :thumbsup: Oops. I just read the part about her avoiding you... Hmm. Do you know...
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    Premarital sex

    Bro, I spoke with him yesterday about this issue and he didn't take it too well... He still doesn't see this as a sin, since to him, he already feels spiritually married to me... (I guess he feels the way you do.) However, he has promised not to have intercourse again til we legally marry, but...
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    Premarital sex

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    Premarital sex

    27,28 this year --- I know, we're so old, yet still living with our parents, but hey, that's a part of our culture! hahaha. :D We usually don't leave our parents unless we're married... ;)
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    Premarital sex

    Thanks, Grishnak, for taking the time to reply. In response to the quote above, I'm not sure if my bf and I have satisfied even the first part: we're not engaged yet. Emotionally and financially, I feel I am ready for marriage, but I don't think he feels that we are (financially). It'll prob be...
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    Premarital sex

    Dear Brothers and Sisters, I would appreciate any sort of advice. :help: I am so sad right now... Before I became Christian, I already knew that it was "wrong" to have premarital sex with my boyfriend, coming from a very strict and traditional family background... However, because my boyfriend...