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Recent content by dclem

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    Ray Boltz....Gay?

    I have no problem if someone struggles with homosexuality. I DO have a problem if someone gives in to it. Apparently, that's what Ray Boltz has done. Yes, we need to pray for him and no, we shouldn't hate him. That doesn't mean we accept his sin, however.
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    Examining the Save 3ABN Website

    At NO time did I say I was a child when it happened, nor did I "intentionally leave out critical information." Everything is in my statement on save-3abn.com. It's not my fault people can't read. I have never lied, Jim. Get your facts straight before you make accusations against me. I don't...
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    I just don't understand.....

    Why do people go to counselors for depression, when chances are the counselor had never experienced depression? I had depression for most of my teen and early adult years. I was put on medication, which I stopped taking. I was offered counseling a few times, but I always told the counselor to...
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    Examining the Save 3ABN Website

    I AM a victim. I did not bring anything up. I was responding to other posts. If the statutes ever allow it, I WILL bring charges against Tommy. Closure? Why do you need closure? How does this affect you? Keep talking if you want me to keep talking. I'm tired of people running their mouths...
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    Examining the Save 3ABN Website

    Take what I'm dishing out? How does what I'm saying affect you? Are you Tommy? If not, it has nothing to do with you. Did you not read what I posted previously? At least three other victims HAVE tried to take action, and Tommy managed to lie his way out of it every time. He's a master...
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    Examining the Save 3ABN Website

    I don't need to prove anything to you. I know it happened because I was there. You can believe it or not, that's your decision. You have no right, however, to tell me to keep quiet.
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    Examining the Save 3ABN Website

    Have you ever been sexually abused? Do you have any idea how hard it is to come forward? BTW, more than one victim DID come forward when it happened, but he was always able to avoid being charged somehow. That's another reason so many other victims have kept quiet for so long. Also, can you...
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    Throughly frustrated with my youth group

    Man, I've been there. It's not fun I know. I was in almost the same situation about 3 years ago. My kids weren't interested because there was trouble in the church, and they knew it. It culminated in the pastor yelling at me, in front of my youth, one Sunday night at the end of church. I...
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    Examining the Save 3ABN Website

    I have a better idea. Unless you have been personally affected by this, why don't you keep out of it? It's really easy to come in here and condemn me and others anonymously, isn't it? I use my name because I have nothing to hide. It's strange that TS's defenders never want to do that.
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    Songs you're sick of Hearing.

    Anything by Carrie Underwood (including and ESPECIALLY "Jesus Take The Wheel")
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    please i cannot take it anymore

    THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! Finally someone else who feels the same way. I have always wondered why the infatuation with all the "praise and worship" music out there when Jesus emphatically told us NOT to use vain repetitions. I'm also weary of this "audience of One" line I'm given all...
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    Examining the Save 3ABN Website

    Why? There's no truth there.
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    Can someone identify this Mark Schultz song?

    I tried singing "Remember Me" to the music. It won't work. I'm beginning to think that the track is tagged wrong.
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    Can someone identify this Mark Schultz song?

    I don't recognize it, but it's NOT "Remember Me." I'll see what I can find.
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    3ABN Lawyers Discussion

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