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Recent content by DCJH

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    Tormented

    I have felt like there was biblical grounds. He was having sexual encounters with these women. If he had hired a prostitute to lay on the bed and touch while he watched and did the same...how is that any different? Because there was separation by a computer screen? However, I just feel...
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    Tormented

    Thank you for your responses. Just to be clear, the unprotected sex with multiple women came after the divorce. Not that that changes the health risk, or the hurt, but that didn't happen during the marriage. He did begin seeking out relationships through the dating sites before we were...
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    Tormented

    Thanks for your response. I am in therapy, however, I was hoping to hear insite from other christians, maybe someone in a similar situation who is farther down the road. Maybe someone who overcame these hurdles ...or thoughts on if it isn't reasonable to expect to be able to. I pray...
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    Tormented

    I was married for 18 1/2 years/dated for 3 1/2 before that. My divorce was initiated in March and final in May of this year. I had been unhappy for a long time with a very unaffectionate, unloving and volatile marriage. He has an addiction to porn and alcohol, however, it was rare for the...