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Recent content by dbartley

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    massage parlor tempatation

    I have given it thought and decided to come clean with my wife. I am so scared and nervous but if I really want to make a change, I need her help. I need to be honest with her and face the fact that I've made a mistake. I love her so much. I am hurting so much as well. This isn't going to be...
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    massage parlor tempatation

    I agree with you! Thanks
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    Forgive

    Hey there, suffering from sin? I understand. I have sinned and felt so bad, like I am the only one who who sin in a way that I did (I didn't harm anyone physically or mentally, but I did something not good). Anyway, it hurt me for 2 years. I became so down and worried about what if this happened...
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    massage parlor tempatation

    Thanks for your help! It's not that regular that I go. I've gone 5 times in the past year- too many times. I am with my family 99% of the time so I'd go if I had half hour free on the way home from somewhere. It's really over though. I started 6 months ago with getting rid of all porn...
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    how to stop worrying?

    Hi there, I'm the one who wrote the "massage" thread. First, I'm glad I found this forum, it's great! I understand that God will take all our worries away from us if we let Him. However, I have a low anxiety issue where I constantly worry about the 'what if" in life. Even though everything...
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    massage parlor tempatation

    It's me, the one who wrote this. Why have I been doing this? I really don't know. The pain, sleepless nights, guilt and shame consume me for weeks and even months after. I have read the Bible and it has helped but after the pain goes, I stop reading....and even praying :( If anything good...
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    massage parlor tempatation

    Hi everyone, I am a VERY happily married guy with kids. For some reason, I have become tempted to go to an erotic massage parlor. First time, I didn't enjoy it and then went to another to give it another try. Still didn't get anything out of it but have gone 5 times! I feel guilty about it and...