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Recent content by dayknee

  1. dayknee

    Advice needed I am confused

    oh wow, it isn't often that both spouses share on the same forums! From what I see, there is a huge difference in love languages and communication. I really think, sometimes, it comes down to simple things. Basic things. Husbands love your wife as Christ loved the church. Meaning...with...
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    spouses 6 hour calls

    This is completely unacceptable in a marriage. one, married women should not maintain any close/intimate/sharing of feelings relationship with any man other than her husband. two, if your wife is threatening to kick you out, then you know that her relationship with this man is more serious...
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    How do I tell her I quit, its over.

    It has been a long while since I have been here. I want to say that I know it's hard when we feel like we have no more to give. I was on these forums when I was going thru the contemplation of divorce and then finally divorcing. I have to say .... there are times that I regret the decisions I...
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    Lost Family :(

    My two brothers, who are Christians, have discontinued fellowship with me because my significant other is an unbeliever. They believe I am in sin....constant sin. I certainly do not see it this way. I probably am just ranting and feeling hurt..which is why I decided to make a post. They...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    No clue what you're talking about here. It seems as if most people on here, sepcifically this area, would rather assume something is a certain way then really listen to what is being said. The general opinion of everyone is not what upsets me or bothers me. It is how it is delivered. In a...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    quote=Luther073082;57309471]No you don't, otherwise you wouldn't get defensive when someone calls you out for what you are doing. If you accepted advice you might take a step back and look at this and consider the possibility that you may not have handled this in the most christian manner. I...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    you know..I did not attack you in the slightest. You came out with both guns at me and certainly not in a kind manner. I accept all advice and I respect all opinions and thoughts christian and non christian alike. What is hard for me to stomach is someone saying that I have done things...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    A) not still fuming about it (not sure where you got that unless you're going off someone elses response B) not harping on it..this thread was asking why a person says "he's with you isn't he"? which by all accounts this thread has been completely detracted from it's orignial title. So if'n...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    Hrm...Im not harping on anything..Im defending myself against a young boy who seem's to believe something that isn't true. This is not about ending a relationship..this is about someone doing the wrong thing after this someone promised that he would never do that. Now given my past situation...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    Yes, you are correct! Having had to....ughh...<shakes her head> go through all of that for so long and feel like a worthless and undesired women..well..the pain is deeper than any I've ever known. I had loved this man so very very much and would have done anything to make him love me that...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    Hey thanks for that Christianly love..:doh: I did not "browbeat" him at all. I expressed my unhappiness for some things he had done (in a different post) and how it hurt me. I am extremely forgiving of mistakes. I was married for 20 years to a man who abused pornography for at least 10...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    I had thought about that from time to time, taking a break or something. And I'm suprised sayind douche is alright but saying pi-ss-ed off and calling it a cuss word by the forums here..is a retarded:doh:
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    Hahah I had not known that Pi-ss-ed off was cussing..
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    No offense but it would be impossible to grasp the concept of pornography and cheating being in the same category since you are not a Christian. I believe what the Bible says about what constitutes unfaithfulness. I cannot compete with pornography nor should any woman. Hell yes I am...