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Recent content by davin

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    [Moved to E&M] Ethical Dilema for Gay Man wanting Baby

    Further to my previous message. I would like to say that I am sorry for what I did and that I know it was unethical. I do firmly believe however that I have every right to see and be a part of my childs life.
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    [Moved to E&M] Ethical Dilema for Gay Man wanting Baby

    Hello all, I had previously posted this on the pregnancy forum but was asked by the mod to move this over to the struggles forum. Just wondering if you can help me. I just need to hear from other people about this. I am a Gay Methodist man who has been in a relationship with another man for...
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    Ethical Dilema for Gay Man wanting Baby

    I am not a troll..... This is quite serious. I don't expect people to accept what I did as being right. I know it was wrong and I now that it was unethical. I just need to know if people believe that it is right to exclude me from the childs life.
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    Ethical Dilema for Gay Man wanting Baby

    Listen, i understand that it might sound a little bad. But I am desperate to have a child. I tried really hard to try and find an alternative method without causing and hurt to anybody but could not find anyone willing. I know some people will look down on me because I am gay but I can't help...
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    Ethical Dilema for Gay Man wanting Baby

    Hi All, Just wondering if you can help me. I just need to hear from other people about this. I am a Gay Methodist man who has been in a relationship with another man for the past 10 years. Me and my partner desperately wanted to have a child in our lives so I decided that I would try to find...