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Recent content by dandelionnn

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    I don't understand why I was never loved

    Thanks for the replies. I guess that's where free will comes in but I still think they shouldn't have even popped up in my life. I currently have a boyfriend right now that I do love and that loves me back but he's not Christian either and all he does is smoke pot and work at Burger king...I...
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    I don't understand why I was never loved

    Good point, no they weren't and I did ask God to guide me through them and help me through them. I guess the way he did it was push me away from them. And I can't seem to find a Christian guy that I like and would be interested in me too.
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    I don't understand why I was never loved

    I've had many men I encountered and was attracted to, I always fell hard in love with them. They never loved me back... my question is why God let such encounters happen in my life if all I've ever gotten from them was heart break lasting long periods of time. I never learned from them or...
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    I have too much to pray about

    And I don't know where to start. Should I list everything to Jesus or does He already know my issues? If so, how do I simplify my prayers? What do I say? And why do I see so many people in different churches speaking in tongues? I can't do that. It seems so simple to them...it amazes me, because...
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    Prayer for a new man in my life that will be perfect for me

    I agree with you, so thank you! I'm just a little confused on how to be mature emotionally and spiritually, like what does that mean exactly, could you explain it a little more to me?:) I hope that God helps me become a good enough woman (not perfect, bc apparently i'm not allowed to say that...
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    Prayer for a new man in my life that will be perfect for me

    Okay smart one's. Y'all are paying too much attention on how I worded my favor. I didn't mean to say I need the most perfect man in the world, what I mean was that I need someone good for me and to me. Someone that at least I'll consider perfect enough for me...I KNOW there's no such thing as...
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    Prayer for a new man in my life that will be perfect for me

    I said perfect for me, as in a perfect match. I know that no one is perfect except God. Excuse the way I worded out my favor. Anyway, I didn't really ask for advice, I asked for prayer...I only posted it in the wrong section.
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    Prayer for a new man in my life that will be perfect for me

    I already have all that, I have a pastor and church friends, it's just that I'm more friendly with the wrong crowds unfortunately. But don't worry, I'm trying to get out! That's why I pray for a good man...I pray that I will be GOOD enough for a Christian man, too. What do I need a female mentor...
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    Question on free will

    [I]Thanks guys, especially to the ones that really explained this topic to me. So I don't really know what Calvinism is, but if they call themselves Christians...well, let's just say I don't agree with that. I don't agree with how God already predetermined who's going to Hell and who's going to...
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    Prayer for a new man in my life that will be perfect for me

    I knew someone was going to say something like this...But just for the record, just wanted to let you know I'm not selfish, and I do seek God and I know that God is a jealous God. I still do have a relationship with God...and just because I want a physical being for Him to send me, does not...
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    Question on free will

    I came across a thread today that said something about that supposedly God planned our lives before we were born...How is that? We have free will, which means God shouldn't plan your life (unless you ask Him to have a plan in store for you), only you're allowed to do whatever you like to it and...
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    Prayer for a new man in my life that will be perfect for me

    God is the best match maker, as we know. Lately I've been feeling sort of lost, as if I'm at a dead end and I have no clue how to get out of it. The people I hang out with right now are no good for me, and the men are dishonest because I have no idea where I can find the right man, a good man; A...
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    Prayer for a new man in my life that will be perfect for me

    I accidentally put this in the Christians Advice section instead of Prayer Requests, I'm sorry. Can this be moved?
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    Prayer for a new man in my life that will be perfect for me

    God is the best match maker, as we know. Lately I've been feeling sort of lost, as if I'm at a dead end and I have no clue how to get out of it. The people I hang out with right now are no good for me, and the men are dishonest because I have no idea where I can find the right man, a good man; A...