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Recent content by Cuillan

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    Life’s crossroads

    he’s very volatile and can’t cope with the kids. When he’s home it’s just darkness. I try doing fun things but he drags them down. I can’t think or move of the couch when he’s home. He’s been abusive to me in various ways over the years. When I worked he didn’t look after the kids and the house...
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    Life’s crossroads

    hi all. I’m a disabled mum with 3 kids, 1 child is autistic. My husband who has depression is a difficult man to life with. He’s been removed from the family home pending police enquiries. The problem is that without him I feel so much better. I actually function. I’m a better mum, my house is...
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    I feel so lost

    I've been married for just over four years. I have three children. And the man I'm married to. When we first married he worked night and I looked after my daughter. He then got made redundant and I started working for a charity while he looked after my daughter. The first day at work I came...