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Recent content by CtYankee

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    Focus on the good, what do men look for in a woman?

    Sorry .... already taken. She married me twenty years ago. .
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    finding a decent guy

    Actually I loved my wife before I met her. That's the point. We have been true to each other for ever and ever. Who taught your wife? Does he still love her? Are you sure? Does she love him? Do you ever wonder? Are you distracted? Is she? Is she the most beautiful you have ever seen...
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    finding a decent guy

    I was “that” guy and I must say it took a lot of discipline for me and her. Youth is youth and hormones do tend to act up. Early on (young teenage) I must admit I lost a couple of girl friends due to me not being aggressive in that department. How do I know? I suffered the embarrassment of being...
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    finding a decent guy

    I'm glad you don't get it because I regret that I posted it. I am sorry to you and to any one offended. Because it was offensive. I'm working on it.
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    finding a decent guy

    OK …. Somebody’s gotta do it. I’ll volunteer on behalf of (I suspect) many others. I think this might cost me any good will I might have on this forum and I’m willing to forfeit it for a good cause. drfeelgood … do you have any other patients other than drfeelgood? I pause for so...
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    It's FRIDAY!!!!

    When I was a kid (about 55 years ago) my mother would serve each of us two very hot cod fish cakes. Then she would crack under-cooked soft boiled eggs over the cod fish cakes. The heat of the cakes would complete the cooking of the eggs and they would fuse to the cakes. The side dish would...
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    It's FRIDAY!!!!

    Yum ... exactly what I had for lunch today.
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    It's FRIDAY!!!!

    Take two slices of bread the same size. Lay them on the cutting board opposing each other. Using a mayonnaise knife or any implement suitable for spreading a substance on each slice of bread. Spread mayo on each slice of bread. Mustard may be substituted for mayo on each slice of bread or both...
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    Can I get an honest opinion?

    No offence taken and sorry if I offended. I was trying to speak metaphorically while showing respect for the young man’s very good attitude. A poor attempt on my part to mix imaginative romance with contemporary thought. God bless you and thanks for your response.
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    My Feelings Are Hurt

    The nerve of them! It just flares my nostrils, bucks my teeth and makes my eyes bug out!!
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    Jealousy in relationships

    If he only knew! If he could only experience the joy of trust, what gifts you would give each other. He could feel ten feet tall as he watches you enjoy the company of your friends and his friends. Confidence in love received equates to the sincerity of love given. Rare is a day of freedom for...
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    Can I get an honest opinion?

    I agree with you and believe the age of chivalry is not entirely dead. Wouldest I cloak myself I would rip it off to ease her way and draw my sword to guard her honor.
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    Can I get an honest opinion?

    Step in here with me for a moment, son. We need to talk a bit. You have the right attitude and the responses seem to be sincere. It has indeed been my long experience that the gentleman you portray is most likely the gentlemen she wants near. Examine, also, your other qualities as a...
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    Guys, I really need some advice...

    Very good advice. My advice is to take skinnybrad's advise. The current object of your affections has left the door open for others to walk through. She's asked you to wait on the porch while others may pass through the door. They will walk into the light. If it dims she intends to check the...