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    5wks pregnant

    That is so sad.
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    Is it EVER a sin for a divorced person to remarry

    SS, looking at someone with lustful thoughts may be adultery *in their heart*, but it's not adultery inn their actions. Remember what Jesus said about sin coming from the heart. It starts there, but it doesn't end there. Yes, the heart needs to be fixed, there's no denying that, but it's not...
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    Is it EVER a sin for a divorced person to remarry

    "ANY circumstances that make it a sin for a divorced person to remarry, or for one to marry them ?" Yes, but ask any remarried divorced christian and they'll say that they aren't sinning and anyone who believes they are are judgmental unforgiving people.
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    I want to give up this guy for God..

    Your parents - - I'm not an Indian, and my family is mostly anglo-saxon, and very Western. I'm also young-ish (not as young as you). I've seen what our culture does with dating and relationships, and it often turns out badly. I'm not sure whether arranged marriages are the solution, but it is...
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    I want to give up this guy for God..

    You can explain to him that you don't want to have a relationship with him. You can explain your reasons. It's the respectful thing to do. There's no sense in worrying him or being mean about it. When I said "ignore him", I meant ignore him if he persists. Accept that your feelings are there...
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    Husband is always too sleepy for sex

    Maybe if you help him out with some of these tasks, things will be easier for him. Also, your marital relationship is more important than housework or helping out friends/family, so if he places your relationship at a higher priority, his tiredness will not be so much of a problem. You can get...
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    Should one feel obligated for membership in any church?

    To me, the only membership that matters is being written in the Lamb's Book of Life. I don't mean to be pompous about it, but it's just always been my attitude. Being a formal member of a congregation only happens if I feel that I'm connected with the people there already. If they expect me to...
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    I want to give up this guy for God..

    "He says he'll "never give up on us"" He will once his feelings fade and he believes his advances are hopeless. Human beings, esp. at that young age, aren't as constant as they think they are. Some males like the chase. You look - to him, because he's not a Christian and he knows you still...
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    Do babies go to Heaven?

    Probably
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    Children Are Not Born Atheists

    "Newborns are atheists" That would be a fair assessment if atheism was true.
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    Children Are Not Born Atheists

    It's hardly established that children are born atheist. We don't know what babies know, and what has been forgotten. The ability to retain long-term memory improves with age, but you almsot never get back what has been irrevocably lost.
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    If I divorced my wife

    If you divorce your wife, she could take your daughter, child support, possibly alimony, and half of your assets. If you divorce your wife, you are disobeying God, who hates divorce. Paul talked about this scenario. If your wife chooses to leave, you let her go. If not, you stay. If you think...
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    Opinions on Satan

    Why?
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    5wks pregnant

    Yes, it's normal to be sleepy. Get a pregnancy book. It'll explain everything. I know you are young. We've been trying for almost a year. In my darkest moments, I sometimes wish I was "young and stupid" like you. Most women want kids "some day", but it gets harder the older you get. Your child...
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    Demons, real or imagined?

    I don't find demons hard to believe about at all. ?? I think the perception that it is difficult to believe they exist is because of what we are taught in our culture.
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