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Recent content by CoolShadow

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    Love Advice

    (Sorry I haven't responded in a while. Been out of the office where I do most of my postings...) Well, we're going to try to keep a platonic relationship when we see each other again this coming semester. We're finding it hard to keep our emotions at bay though (stating that fact to each...
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    Need Love Advice...

    Well said pecan, here's an update: We decided a couple of days ago that we're going to try and keep a purely platonic relationship (friends) to give space for our thoughts and feelings... However, we're a little worried about accomplishing this goal because is hurts quite a bit to hide how you...
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    Need Love Advice...

    Well, I don't know that I really follow your logic about her "obviously" feeling more for the navy guy. I don't think that she could even answer that one for you. But in regards to the question on physical happenings, "things" have happened that we both recognize as unhealthy and are giving to...
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    Need Love Advice...

    I want to make a clarification on an assumption for psycmajor, DaveKerwin, and Warrior Poet... The other guy in this picture isn't some jerk. I knew him and her when they were officially dating. I knew her well and he was a [few meetings type of] acquaintance. He's a good Christian guy that...
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    Need Love Advice...

    A Healthy Romantic Relationship to me: A relationship in which both persons connect and grow together Intellectually, Emotionally, Physically, and Spiritually. The most important of those being the connection of the spirit with Christ. The relationship must be centered around God and must be...
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    Love Advice

    You know, you might be the perfect person to give advice... I'm not really looking for a way to "win her"; I'm looking more toward reaching a verdict whether that be for him or me. Either way is fine; I'll be happy as long as much thought and prayer has been invested into this. How did you...
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    Need Love Advice...

    Icystwolf: Great analogy on hearing God's voice... thanks for the good advice. KeepTheFaith15: Thanks for the big props, big credit, and good advice. DaveKerwin: I like how you handle things. Thanks for the good advice. lambslove: I agree. Thanks for the good advice.
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    Need Love Advice...

    Mr. Cheese & Clytie, Great advice... thanks alot...
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    Need Love Advice...

    We have both been discussing our situation together so everything is out in the open... She doesn't know that she belongs with this guy; she's even realized now some things that were a little unhealthy about the relationship (nothing drastic, there's always unhealthy things in relationships...
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    Need Love Advice...

    So I need some advice. There's a girl I know from college that is really great. We had been friends for a few years until we both hit it off last semester and have since lovingly grown together emotionally, intellectually, physically, and spiritually. However, this relationship has been more of...
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    Need Love Advice...

    So I need some advice. There's a girl I know from college that is really great. We had been friends for a few years until we both hit it off last semester and have since lovingly grown together emotionally, intellectually, physically, and spiritually. However, this relationship has been more of...
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    Love Advice

    You know, honestly, if that happens I will be completely happy for her and him, and myself as well... as long as it's God's will that is carried out and not our own. It's just so hard to know what God's will is...
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    Love Advice

    So I need some advice. There's a girl I know from college that is really great. We had been friends for a few years until we both hit it off last semester and have since lovingly grown together emotionally, intellectually, physically, and spiritually. However, this relationship has been more of...