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Recent content by cookiemon

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    Father In Law Issue

    I don't mind giving him time if that is what is needed; however, I also don't want a relationship where we pretend that nothing ever happened and just carry on in polite smiles. It feels really forced sometimes as though he is only doing it because of the baby and if it weren't for her he still...
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    Father In Law Issue

    Perhaps he didn't think I was good enough for his daughter, or didn't like that I was from a different country. I met her at university and decided to stay. It could also be that I did a degree in Theology and he thought that I would be a pastor and that it was not a good life for his daughter...
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    Father In Law Issue

    Yes he is a believer. When he rejected us we spoke to his pastor and some elderly friends of the family who are also believers, they spoke to him initially, but not recently. I understand that he has a stubborn nature, but his pastor was in full approval of us, he married us. Perhaps I will talk...
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    Father In Law Issue

    I think it is because I am from a different country than them. I met my wife at university and decided to stay. He did raise that as an argument to his wife I heard, but not in front of me. But maybe because we got married anyhow even though he disapproved. We did it because we were both...
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    Father In Law Issue

    Hello everyone I have an issue and would like your view. I'm married 3 years now. My wife's father didn't like me and when I came to speak to him about marriage he chased me out of his house and told me not to come back I was respectful, nevertheless and was determined to leave him up to God. He...