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Recent content by ConstantlySeeking

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    The just and the unjust

    After this happened between her and my husband, I was working days and she was on nights so we would just bypass each other at change of shift; then my boss came to me and said that I would have to go on nights. There has been plenty of nights where we have worked side by side. I know Gods hands...
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    The just and the unjust

    I try at all costs not to be around her, but we work together.
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    The just and the unjust

    I would like a few opinions. I work with a woman whom I befriended because I was new to the area; well I found out that her and my husband had a brief affair. They both denied it but I had proof. I have sense moves past that and have forgiven but that's not my issue. I was very angry but God...
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    Advice PLEASE!!!

    I am so sorry and I know its hard. It helps to have a prayer group and a good support system. I don't have that. We just moved to a new area with ni family or friends. I have been searching for prayer groups, and praying that God would send a christian mentor because its tough. I have been told...
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    Mother's Day

    Exactly...a lot of people are missing the point. I am not saying by any means that Mother's Day is about the wife. I'm saying, is it necessary to fly across the country to celebrate with the mother? Sending flowers, a card, a phone call would be nice and acceptable as well! If we were in the...
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    Mother's Day

    Hetta, that was very well put! The husband would have a fit if you left him with the kids on "his" day to visit your day. When your married, it should be spent with your wife and kids if your mother is a distance away. Use family vacation during the summer to visit as a family.
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    My husband treats me like the enemy

    Thank you for your response and I have reached out to both the pastor and his wife. He actually contacted my husband and asked him to attend church. He suggested someone for my husband to talk with but he refused. I've spoke with a few ladies there but they just say a prayer. I just don't really...
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    My husband treats me like the enemy

    I do not have a support system as him and I and our children just moved here last summer. I do have a church home but I haven't become close to anyone. I've been praying for God to send some support people as I need positive Christian women in my life.
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    My husband treats me like the enemy

    Some advice would be very helpful and greatly appreciated...my marriage has been in shambles for quite some now. I'm believing and trusting in God for a restoration but I'm doing in solo. My husband treats me like the enemy. He calls me ugly, a loser, no work ethic (but I'm the only one...
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    Mother's Day

    Just a thought...do you think it's acceptable for your husband to fly home to be with his mother and siblings on Mother's Day instead of with his wife and kids?
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    Mothers Day

    Just a thought...do you think it's acceptable for your husband to fly home to be with his mother and siblings on Mother's Day instead of with his wife and kids?
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    Advice PLEASE!!!

    I'm new to this and am seeking some godly advice. I am married 3 yrs now and we have 3 wonderful children. My marriage is in shambles; looks pretty bleek from the outside but I know my God is a God of restoration. I am fighting alone to save my marriage. I am a born again Christian and my...