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    Please advise...Fighting over large purchase

    Thank you for your advice. He would let me spend 50K, if I wanted. But, I am more responsible with money and would never spend that much on something that would only benefit myself. (or a video system) He would never agree with "saving" for this, he feels like he works hard and should be able...
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    Please advise...Fighting over large purchase

    Hmmm....that's a loaded question. I think I already know the answer to both. I told him last night that I could not get on board with spending that much money on a "video game". And he said he was buying one whether I was on board with it or not.....I don't know why of all the things he has...
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    Please advise...Fighting over large purchase

    Hello, I'm new here. DH and I have been married for 14 years and have 2 children under age 10. We both have good jobs and make an above average income. He makes twice as much as I do and therefore feels that he has the right to spend money however he wants. Although we have a retirement and...