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Recent content by clarkkent79

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    Do you raise your voices in an argument?

    Me and my fiance are yellers, it is a normal way of communication for us. ( we are currently seeking help for this) It is horrible and gets worse over time if you don't relize there is a problem. Makes you lose respect for the other person casuing you to yell more. Very damaging to the...
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    Friends of the Opposite Sex

    Last semester at a school in MI, I sat next to a girl in biology class. We had assigned seats she was at the very end of the row, I was the only person seated near her. She would often say good morning or some other small talk before class. Once I saw her in the library and she asked me about...
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    What is the longest an engagement should be?

    its hard to plan a wedding in less than a year. dont want to make it to short. 2-3 years is not ideal (to long) but may be most convinent especialy if finishing up college
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    trust v jelousy

    Does you or you spouse have a friend of the opposite sex? how do you or your spouse deal with it? Do you have the right to demand that your spouse not develope friends of the opposite sex or should you trust his judgment and have faith that he will be faithful.
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    Friends of the Opposite Sex

    When you are dating, engaged, or married what boundries should be on your relationship with others from the opposite sex? Does being seperated such as being away at college eaffect the way relationships should be handled? How much trust should be given and what should not be tolerated? If...