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Recent content by ClarinetScore

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    Acquaintance snaps at you: Give them another shot or move on?

    There's this person who I've known quite awhile. She really helped me through a tough time (I was really rude to her on purpose at the time). Much later on as we messaged, she misread my messaged and snapped. I forgave her instantly without her apology although she did apologize later on. The...
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    Has God left me

    Dude, you'll make it. You're stronger in Christ than you think. There's an online church called XP Church run by Patricia King. If you signup you'll get assigned a web pastor based on your region. I really think you need to talk to someone there who's spiritually mature. Galatians talks about...
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    The Hard Side of Adolescence

    Can I tell you? I know how it feels to want to go back to someone... Even to this day I wrestle off thoughts of missing her but she wasn't any good for me, and I have a destiny to fulfill that I don't want to compromise no matter what. God will bring me someone who fears Him and will be going...
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    Need advice on mean girl/ bullying and confrontation

    There's a balance between letting stuff go and confrontation. Both are necessary and biblical. There's a book called Boundaries by Henry Cloud and Townsend.
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    Not getting along well with someone

    The Bible teaches us that we believe the best of every person in 1 Cor. 13. We don't allow sin against us to produce sin in us, meaning we just treat them politely and respectfully. Biblically speaking, however, we're to distance ourselves from people who continually cause us to sin or disregard...
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    Looking for Christian friends!

    21 from Malaysia. I've got Skype and FB. No idea how to PM though. Some non-awkward female friends would be nice as the ladies at my church are too conservative. Met a really awesome guy here so hope to find more as friendly as he. Oh, and in terms of spirituality, I pretty much talk about...
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    I feel lost.....

    Based on your first post, I'd like to clarify a few things. Foremost, I know how it feels... and based on experience and scripture (the account of Balaam), what we desire most can sound like the voice of God to us. You're right and smart to take time and get away but I suggest learning more...
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    Introduce Yourself (2)

    Hello. Welcome Antonio.
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    Wanna talk about contemporary music?

    I don't particularly listen to such music due to the lyrics. Although, 7 Years is one of my favorites in terms of singing style even though the lyrics don't suit me. Not sure if contemporary Chrisitan music counts but i recently found MadeToLove by Toby Mac which was quite good.
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    How do I discern God's voice from my own?

    Uh... I've been in several relationships before and have had supernatural stuff happen. Well, if it's something in the physical... it's called "putting out a fleece" or trying to confirm something using a physical sign. In the state you're in, I wouldn't recommend trying to hearing God at all IN...
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    Nearly nineteen - How to deal with not being able to date

    Min 42-44:13. It doesn't state the exact situation but should give some principals (can't demand rights under someone else's house). I'm not a father so I don't have the right to advise you on this but the Bishop knows what he's talking about.
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    I like a guy who has a girlfriend

    You don't seem to be active anymore but I hope you somehow find your way to this message. Maybe it'll help others as well... maybe. I've been in the exact same situation before. I know how it feels to have someone want you, be attracted to you, laugh at your jokes, make you feel happy. I know...
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    Introduce Yourself (2)

    Hi. 21... I'm into theology and movies. I watch a ton of them. I'm mixed... stayed in England with my dad before but I'm Asian. I don't really consider myself denominational but it seems like I do fit into Pentecostal/Charismatic. I do move in the gifts, primarily revelatory gifts (WoW, WoK...