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Recent content by CivilEngineer

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    Anger Issues and Venting

    I thought of posting this here because I'm not sure where to talk about this, and I appreciate all responses. I'm known by most people as a very quiet, kind person who is often very awkward in social situations. Back in high school (five years ago), I had lots of friends and I was known to...
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    2 Issues: Who Am I? & Dating a Non-Christian

    If nobody minds, I thought of putting the two issues that I'm currently facing into this thread: My first issue involves who I am. I suppose it's normal for those my age (a college student) to be asking who I naturally am. So I've been asking myself who I would be if I was allowed to live a...
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    Should I marry?

    Thanks everyone for your responses. I've went to my local church and found a group of friends who have invited me to join them for bible study, and they've asked if I could join them in a few activities that they might get involved with. I feel very welcomed and understood there. I hope to use...
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    Should I marry?

    I guess the reason why I describe my life as being a mess is mostly because of the embarrassment that I had while I was in high school. I know it sounds really odd, but it still bothers me. And concerning that, I'm trying to move on and put it in the past. There's also the issue of my future...
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    Should I marry?

    I've never shared this story with anyone, and I thought of sharing it here since I can remain anonymous. In my junior year in high school, I went through a very tough time in my life. I developed multiple health issues and I had to watch my brother - which I was very close to - to struggle in...
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    Obama professes Christianity, describes "Ultimate betrayal of God's will"

    In my humble opinion, never judge politicians based on their words but on their actions/policies. :)