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Recent content by .chrys.

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    Is 40 young?

    I'm unable to judge. We only see a picture of their temporal bodies; not a glimpse into their lives. Aging well isn't about appearances, in my opinion--it's how one lives their life.
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    Is 40 young?

    91 is old. That's what my grandmother says. She thinks she can pass for 65 though. She says a good day is when you wake up and still feel in pain--that means you're not dead yet. 68 is "getting there". That's what my mother says. She doesn't think my 91 year old looks anything like 65 though. 45...
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    [Open Dr Who fan members] calling Dr Who fans (4)

    My favorite scene with Peter Capaldi is when he and Clara were in the restaurant where no one was really eating...do you remember that episode? In that scene he really transformed into the Doctor in my mind. I hope he's around for a long time!
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    [Open Dr Who fan members] calling Dr Who fans (4)

    I hope you can get your avatar back, Dawn! Loved to see all the avatars in this thread!
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    Minor, but sometimes troubling

    Could you leave him a note asking him to set aside 5 minutes of time for just discussion? And then, be prepared...make sure what you'd like to talk about, then do so.