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Recent content by chrisbrown

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    End of the road

    Ya, you're probably right about the girl that night. I should probably just be patient and wait for God's timing on these things. As human beings, it is hard to be patient sometimes, and when something doesn't go your way, it's easy for it to bring you down. Regarding the CS question, I'll...
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    End of the road

    Thanks for all your responses and prayers. I'm sorry I haven't responded until now, but I have been really just been trying to soak in all your responses, and I've been pretty busy with school. I have been pursing my Computer Science degree for the past 5 years (while working full-time) so...
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    End of the road

    Thank you for your reply. I get the fact that sense, purpose, and joy does not come from a spouse or significant other. However, I challenge you to find anyone on here that would say they would honestly be happy if their spouse or significant other was taken away from them and they would have...
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    End of the road

    I really wanted to reach out to anyone that may have some words of advise for someone who feels like giving up. I have made an honest effort to try and find someone, but I just keep getting rejected. My latest one is a girl at the park that I have seen like clockwork and finally ran into her...
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    How Many Times Have You Heard "Lets Just Be Friends?"

    I think the key here is to take these as hints that the other person has no interest in a relationship with you and probably never will. I think that was (ok, is..) one of my biggest flaws. I always think they're just playing hard to get and will eventually change their mind so I keep pursuing...
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    Do mature men like long hair on women?

    Yes, I definitely prefer longer hair then shorter hair. But too long isn't good either. I tend to like shoulder or just beyond shoulder length. I really think it makes the girl more youthful looking, no mater what age. I don't know why girls think they have to cut their hair short and get it...
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    Anyone here over 35 and never been in love or never married?

    Thanks dayhiker. It's really nice to be able to dialog with people here on this forum, as most people in real life get tired of hearing the same story over and over (like my mom...).
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    I know we are supposed to count our blessings, but...

    I've been pretty blessed my whole life. I have always had relatively good health (save for a few stomach issues), I have always had a roof over my head, I have a great mother, the Lord has truly blessed me with a wonderful career in which I have never been out of a job, and probably many other...
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    Anyone here over 35 and never been in love or never married?

    Definitely not alone here. I'm in my mid 30s and never been married. As far as being in love, I have certainly "loved" a few girls in my life, but it was always a one way street unfortunately. I can't recall a single time in my life where I have ever experienced the wonderful gift of true...
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    The love of my life

    Wow, that is a really nice story and congratulations on finding the love of your life. I can only imagine what it must feel like to wake up every morning and the first thing you see is the love of your life. Must be awesome! I can't wait for that day to come!
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    The love of my life

    Thank you so much guys!
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    Anyone here over 35 and never been in love or never married?

    I'm in the same boat. 36 and never been married or in a real relationship with someone that I really loved. It does get harder with age for me, that's for sure. I just keep hoping that as God has done with my career, he will also do with my love life. Good luck to you and may God bring...
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    The love of my life

    Thank you so much for your prayers. You really don't know how much it means to me...
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    The love of my life

    I know there is our timing and then there is God's timing. Being 36 years old, I have learned over and over in my life that God's timing is perfect. I have continuouly been blessed with a wonderful career since 16, even though it meant changing employers several times. I've never been out of...
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    The Lord's help in new career direction

    The prayers are definitely working! The 1st interview with this company went extremely well, so much so that they are bringing me back for a 2nd interview, which is usually a good sign! Please keep praying. It is for this Thursday at 10:30.