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Recent content by Chicita

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    Need opinions/advises on LDR case

    I went to their house and met his ex 3.5 years ago. That was the last time I talked to her. She seemed to be a nice positive woman and she knew I was with her ex already. It is hard to know the truth in LDR, only God knows I think. I have been through so many hard times caused by not...
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    Would like to experience intimacy with a man

    Hi jennwiln, I could not agree more with BoranJarami. There is nothing wrong with sex but you probably need to learn to make a difference between experiencing sex itself and connecting it with a marriage. Seeking a man through a dating site is one of the ways you can meet men, but this...
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    Need opinions/advises on LDR case

    Treasurer, Soulsearching1, Russmoon, PerkyCurlz, Wonderwaleye, Reyanah…..thank you all so much for your opinions and advises. Treasurer, many thanks for your prayer. :) These last days have been hard for me. It has been actually a few months when I realized he is not the 'right one' for me...
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    Slowly losing Faith.

    Hello AllElseFailed, It is good to start focusing on God and ask your heart deeply what/how you feel about Him. Take it easy with your spiritual growth but at the same time try to be around positive people who understand the Bible better than you (you can find this mostly in church). This way...
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    Sad 4 My Lil Sis

    Hi thankful4god, I am sorry for what happened to your lil sist. Seeing from the cause, the divorce doesn't mean she is the one responsible for that. Best thing is for her family to support and comfort her, be there with her. It is good to accept her situation despite the fact that divorce...
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    Need opinions/advises on LDR case

    Hi all, Don’t know if this is the right thread I am posting……..or is there a thread for long distrance relationship (LDR) case? I need your opinions or advises for my problem. I have been in a long distance relationship for more than 4.5 years now. I am Indonesian and he is Dutch. The thing...
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    My Moods Just Go Up and Down, Up and Down!

    Hi HolyMary, I know how it feels when negative moods start to strike again because it happens to me sometimes as well. Last effort I did was stuffing myself with positive tapes to listen to (I collected tapes of preach from different pastors). When it was not enough I tried to read positive...
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    My Moods Just Go Up and Down, Up and Down!

    Hi Trish, Do you still have mood swings nowadays? Do you still have meds for that? I have BPD but I don't go to psychiatrist because of several reasons. I tried to handle it myself though. Having extreme mood swings was so hard to handle, not to mention tendency to commit suicide and very bad...
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    God's helps & alternative therapies

    For JTLauder, Arclight610, Roger459, Salida, Bliz, wayfaring man……thank you all so much. :thumbsup: I have been struggling with confusions, whether to accept methods of alternative therapies or not. It is not me who will have the therapies though. My best friend will. He and his family are...
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    God's helps & alternative therapies

    Hi all, I need your opinions. :) People tend to go to psychiatrists more sometimes nowadays. The more they have problems the more they go to psychiatrists. I often heard they got alternative treatments to get solutions out of their problems. There are regression therapies, kinesiology...
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    Im really struggling.

    Wow, I was quite amazed to see what you had to go through. Being 18 in the past I understand it must be very hard for you with such circumstances and bad situations around you. Don't worry though. Think this way: whenever you are faced in front of terrible things happening around you, that...
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    We need lots of help

    There is no reason to break up if you two still love each other. If you two love each other that much, praying and doing the right things (which you know deep in your heart) are good solutions. Breaking up doesn't guarantee you two will not have physical love anyway. It is all in the heart and...