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Recent content by ChartreuseRose

  1. ChartreuseRose

    Feeling sick to my stomach about this

    Right now don't focus on the wedding. Postpone or cancel it. When he is sober take a seat with him. Calmly explain to him what is bothering you. Make him aware of the fact that this is affecting the relationship. Then try to find a solutions for his problems together with him. If he is not...
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    He doesn’t believe in Him

    Thank you all so much!! I thought I’d give an update on what’s been happening. I’d like to point out that it was not my intention to hurt or mislead him. I’m just not someone who tells everything about myself as soon as I meet someone. I don’t feel as if I’ve done something wrong. However...
  3. ChartreuseRose

    He doesn’t believe in Him

    Thank you Elijah. I don't think he intentionally wants to hurt me. Maybe I'll start the subject of religion and see how he reacts...
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    He doesn’t believe in Him

    Thanks for the advice. I'm 24 btw.
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    He doesn’t believe in Him

    Thanks for the advice. But what changes have I made?
  6. ChartreuseRose

    Hi

    Stop right there. If you're heart is in the right place God will help you out. You have to believe in that. Also how do you now for sure this is the path he wants you to follow?? Maybe you should take a different path. I myself have failed and failed and failed. Only to realise later on he...
  7. ChartreuseRose

    Friends that you like but aren't saved...what to do?

    Just be yourself. Keep trusting in Jesus. Keep on following Him. Don't do the same things they are doing. Believe it or not they are also watching your every move. Try to give them the right example. Since they are your friends you could start talking about faith. However don't try and make...
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    He doesn’t believe in Him

    The situation in a nutshell: I have feelings for a guy. He has feelings for me. The problems: 1. He does not believe in God. I do believe in Him. 2. He’s had relationships in the past. He’s not a virgin. This guy has much more experience in issues concerning love & sex than me. I’m a...
  9. ChartreuseRose

    Virginity is a gift

    This is not a personal attack towards you Leothelioness. But the more I read your answers, the more I’m wondering as to WHY you opened this topic in the first place. It looks as if you don’t want advice because you already made a decision. The more I read the more it seems as if you’re trying...
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    Virginity is a gift

    Interesting topic. I haven’t read all pages. But here’s my view on it: Everything is a gift from God. We should be grateful if we are healthy and for the lives that we lead. So YES, to me, virginity is also a gift. Don’t forget though, that we are all being influenced by the media. To do it...