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Recent content by chainsaw1

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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    Just to update. She moved back into the home in February and we had a healthy baby boy on April 3rd. So now with 5 kids in the house there is a lot of work. We managed through counseling and what I felt was my issues were resolved. however, Her issues never got addressed or say addressed...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    And this is hard for me it honestly is her birthday is tomorrow our wedding anniversaries in 2 weeks we have Christmas we have a daughter's birthday and I feel like all this pressure to make sure I do everything right but meantime I'm having a hard time and I feel like I'm not allowed to have a...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    Thank you, but I am trying to understand that why she is offended that I am down and out because I am and what is wrong with me being stressed and in an upset. I told her I said I am down and depressed about everything that's been going on and she is mad at me for it I haven't last out I haven't...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    And honestly it feels to me like she is making tension between me and my daughter when my daughter is the reason why she can't come back and makes me feel like I should resent my daughter
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    Every week she has a new complaint about my oldest daughter. Two weeks ago it was because she is mad that my oldest daughter feels entitled to sit in the front seat of the car or have a room to herself. Week prior who that was because we had company over in my daughter was serving everyone's...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    I felt like we were making really good progress and this is a setback but the setback is being blamed on me which makes me feel hopeless and helpless
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    Yes I am beginning to feel like it's always something with the marriage I am trying my hardest but I feel like I'm getting hopeless on how to make this marriage work. And she is mad at me for feeling stressed and depressed and patience running thin with the separation still ongoing and I feel...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    My daughter is 14. And what happened was at the restaurant my daughter was staring at her in my wife got offended and she explained across the table why are you staring at me. Which was embarrassing to my daughter and I thought a little too harsh of a way to address a kid who is just staring so...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    Just want to update. Still separated and going to couples counseling. It has seem to be going well, she has been mentioning that she wants to come back to live together. However this past weekend I took all of us on a getaway. While we were there she had an issue with my oldest daughter rolling...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    Thanks man, I am glad to hear someone say this. Truth is it hard being a man, not saying its hard being a woman, but its so hard to be me, because we are so hunted by the devil. The bible states this that the devil is out to bind the woman, but he is out to destroy the man. If he destroys the...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    Thank you for the understanding, it is stressful. I asked her to come back, she said wont come back until I change and my 14 year old daughter changes, because its my fault. we are in counseling, I am trying, I thought that would be enough.
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    Not trying to be offensive here, but this the response I would expect to hear from a female. 1st thing, my 3 children that live with me, that I have custody of should not have to be short changed because I marry another woman and now she can take food out of their mouth. Yes its not fair, I...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    I think you are taking what I said out of context. Its not about losing someone who cuts grass or does chores. I am stating that while we are separated I have my own obligations and responsibilities like raising my 3 kids from previous marriage, paying bills for the house and house chores, and...
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    struggling with marriage (insecurity, jealousy)

    She doesn't feel like sex and feels she shouldnt feel pressure to have sex now since we are seperated. We havent had sex since before she left back in august. Not that I can't control myself, what really hurts is that she doesn't want to with me.