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Recent content by Cdiv4

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    Where does it leave a spouse if...

    I'm sorry you are going through this. I am in a similar situation. He keeps trying to tell me when he leaves it frees me from my marriage vows (though I haven't found that anywhere in the Bible yet). I'm not sure that I can believe that and it makes me wonder where I am left in God's eyes. Do I...
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    Please Pray!

    Thanks to everyone! The prayers are really helping. Things are much better than they were and God is still working!
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    Please Pray!

    I won't make this long. If you would like the background, feel free to look up my other posts. I NEED as much prayer as possible. Please pray for my husband (and my daughter and I). He recently informed me that he wants a divorce (though he is a Christian and knows it's wrong/previously "didn't...
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    Any advise on letting go?

    Yes, we do. We have a daughter that's almost 9 months old. My husband never went on medication because he refuses to get help. He says that they are his private thought and feelings. He doesn't want anyone else in his head changing things. It's been so hard knowing that if he'd just get help, we...
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    Any advise on letting go?

    By the way, we've been married for 3.5 years. I thought we had the perfect marriage until he told me otherwise 3 months ago.
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    Any advise on letting go?

    Well, according to him, he's been going through it off and on since we got married (maybe even before), but it finally got so bad that he told me at the end of December. When I asked him to move out and think about it alone for a while, that's when he decided he wanted a divorce. He has some...
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    Any advise on letting go?

    I can totally relate to you and I'm so sorry. I am going through almost the exact same thing with my husband. Though not all the circumstances are the same, but I get the gist. Just stay strong and ask God to do His will. I was struggling with this for a while, but now that I have let go and let...
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    How to get spouse diagnosed?

    Did you tell him why he was going? I'm not sure my husband even believes that mental disorders are a "real" thing. I remember him saying that people use them to excuse their behavior. He thinks people are too quick to medicate and I can barely get him to take an aspirin.
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    How to get spouse diagnosed?

    I need suggestions please! I'm scared that my husband may be suffering from some kind of mental disorder (possible clinical depression or something along those lines - I think that stuff runs in his family too). How did you guys get your spouses to seek help and get diagnosed without driving...