Recent content by Cactus Jack

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    Where are all the good Godly men?

    Blackribbon, I have gone throughout this thread and re-read the posts. If anything I see you looking for a reason to attack me. You have asked what I put into the relationship with my ex when she bailed out when I was nearly dead. Now you have an issue over my comments about kids in college...
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    Contraception vs. Sexual Innocence

    Or worse- child molestation. Spousal sexual deprivation has been identified as one of the causes of pedophaelia.
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    police in America

    I told you they would do it! :D :(
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    Where are all the good Godly men?

    I try to be me, and I’m almost always open and friendly. Or at least try to be. Some women take it wrong, but that’s not intentional. It does humor though. Ask a girl out for pizza, on me, and tell her she can invite her friends, but they’re on their own ticket. And she calls me a pervert fo...
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    Contraception vs. Sexual Innocence

    Sez who? I see you havn’t gone gold panning lately! Interesting concept. But hey, it’s fun!
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    Where are all the good Godly men?

    Funny thing is, today's "younger women" still havn't grown up yet. I'm in college, and asked a few out to lunch. Nothing weird, nothing sexual, just lunch. Heck, she can bring her friends as well! I don't care. But lo and behold, because I'm in my late 40's and she's barely 20, I'm now a...
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    Your last date

    I think she is speaking out from being hurt in the past, and trying to warn others "don't hurt me again". And I can't say that I blame her. I've been hurt before as well. And it's awful. I hope she someday realizes that there are others in her boat too. FWIW.
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    Contraception vs. Sexual Innocence

    Sez who? Just because you don't like my opinion?
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    Where are all the good Godly men?

    And likewise for men. Me, at least. I don't want to be a financial burden, nor do I want a woman that can't take care of herself.
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    Contraception vs. Sexual Innocence

    Why? I never could understand my past GFs. They start talking about marriage and kids, and I'm all ears. And I'm agreeing and everything, and they say they want one or two, one even said 5. Then I get asked "how many kids do you want?" I have no idea why it is that the relationship sours...
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    Where are all the good Godly men?

    Excuse me? What is this "The same effort that you invested into getting her to marry you?" part? Mind clarifying that?
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    Contraception vs. Sexual Innocence

    BACK OFF Maybe he does have religious convictions and maybe he doesn't. This is a Christian forum, so if he does that is just fine. And if he doesn't that is just fine as well. But attacking anyone for that reason is totally unacceptable.
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    Where are all the good Godly men?

    I am looking for a decent Christian woman, looks not important, that believes in herself and is willing to work together on building our relationship and our lives. My first/last wife left me when I was not far from dead on gurney in the ER waiting for a CAT scan to see how bad I was hurt. So...
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    police in America

    "TheBear", if anything you are one sick pup. In America you are supposed to be innocent unless proven guilty in a court of law before a jury off your peers. You don't get that from some mentally twisted cop thinking he's the new "Judge Dredd".
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    Where are all the good Godly men?

    Oh, yes I do. I cannot say that I consider the LDS to be spiritually clean. Nor can I say that about some Baptist churches. I dunno if that's fair to say. Woman have become so materialistic. "Fame, fortune, good looks and sex" is what I grew up knowing women to want, just from my...