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Recent content by Bubbles41

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    Soulmates?

    From my understanding of soulmates, I think there are several for one person. However, I think God has predestined a person for us as in how the men in the bible found their wives. But then we have our free will. God either allows or imposes His will on us. Anyway, He can turn everything...
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    Here comes our little tie-breaker...

    Trust God will provide for your family as long as you do your part. I come from a family of seven children. I am second from the eldest and only 11 months 11 days younger than the first. We could have been 11 had it not been for several miscarriages. Three children then miscarriage, another...
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    Material and spiritual poverty

    This is sad. Netherlands threatens to withhold aid to Nicaragua over abortion ban. As a third world national, I know how rich countries have pressured the poor ones to conform to their anti-Catholic perspectives. Only goes to show who is really poor, the materially or the spiritually...
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    Material and spiritual poverty

    This is sad. Netherlands threatens to withhold aid to Nicaragua over abortion ban. As a third world national, I know how rich countries have pressured the poor ones to conform to their anti-Catholic perspectives. Only goes to show who is really poor, the materially or the spiritually...
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    Public vs. private adoration?

    I think it is much better if there is a specific time so people could adjust their schedule. In our country, there is exposition the entire day in the church run by the Blessed Sacrament Fathers. That is because I think they are encouraging adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. In our parish...
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    Public vs. private adoration?

    I think it is much better if there is a specific time so people could adjust their schedule. In our country, there is exposition the entire day in the church run by the Blessed Sacrament Fathers. That is because I think they are encouraging adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. In our parish...
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    Birth Control/Abstinence Issue

    The previous posts are all very insightful. What I can say is that pray harder that you don't do anything that would displease God. Pray the rosary and the Chaplet of the Divine Mercy. God bless.
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    abuse of our freedom

    I am sure God is indeed saddened by what is happening in America. I was called anti-American when in another forum I posted about the recent news in Kansas where no less than five people stepped over a dying woman and took photos instead of calling help. Also, I was appalled when I read about a...
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    Online dating problems

    She is most likely a scammer. It may not even be a "she". Don't go outside the site until you are sure about her. I have read somewhere that personal information can be traced in Yahoo. Also, her photos must not be really her. They could just be photos of models or taken online. Be careful...
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    Online dating problems

    Oh, it is very likely that "she" is a scammer. It may not even be a "she". I advise against going outside the site to chat. I have read somewhere that in Yahoo, they can steal personal information. Also, it seems to me that she posted not her real photo. They are most likely photos of models...
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    What is my problem?

    You broke up with her and then when she started seeing someone you were hurt? What do you expect her to do? She has to move on. I think you regret breaking up with her. It would really help you find closure to explain everything to her. I don't blame her if she started to see another man. She...
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    What is my problem?

    Had you been 42 and not 24, I would think that you were my ex. He dumped me after barely knowing another woman. We had a very good relationship and in fact we were already talking about marriage. I knew that he knew he made a mistake because he still send me txt messages and visit my profile in...
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    Soulmate Question

    I understand where you are coming from. I am in a similar situation. The only difference is that I am where your ex is. My man married the other woman recently in what you call a marriage for convenience. After we broke off, he has been coming back to me several times because he has never been...
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    Cancel the wedding

    Thanks for all your replies. I am not in the wedding party. The wedding will be in America. The priest who did the pre-marriage counselling has noticed but I don't think they interfere. They merely let the couple know of the possible scenarios and how to best prepare for them. The would be...
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    Cancel the wedding

    I don't know if this is the right forum to post this. I just would like to ask your advice concerning my friend. His wedding is scheduled in 14 days. Two months before the wedding, he told me that he is unhappy with the relationship and he has been having second thoughts about the wedding. There...