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Recent content by Bringmeback

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    Feeling Terrible and Completely Lost

    I'm here because I just don't have anybody I can confide in about this. Sometime ago I did something VERY terrible to a person related to my sister and she knew nothing about it. I one day worked up the courage and told her 1/2 the truth about what I did. She was definitely hurt from what I let...
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    the book/tvshow/movie Deathnote

    I REALLY enjoyed this series. At first, I thought I'd hate it because of all the dialogue. However, as the show progressed, it managed to keep me on my toes time and time again.
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    Think Light-Hearted Comedy Is Still Relevant?

    I don't know. Whenever I turn on the television and see these shows and comedians, it seems everyone's trying to be more tasteless than the other with the jokes they make. Basically, I feel that if you aren't trying to make light of this dude getting murdered, that female getting raped, or your...
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    Why Am I So Bad With Confrontation?

    This is another issue that I'm starting to get to the bottom of with the new therapist I have. Everytime I go, I feel that I'm wasting my time and money, but when I leave, I feel that I might just be making a good desicion with this therapy.
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    I'm So Nervous and Confused..

    I know I've gone ghost for a lengthy time, but I haven't forgotten about this spot. I wanted to post here to say I've managed to stay away from porn/mb for a month and I feel like I'm changing for the best. And I do mean FINALLY changing for the best. Around September and October of 08, I got...
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    Why Am I So Bad With Confrontation?

    Yes. I wanted to talk to my father about his reluctancy to go out with my sisters and I without his "other" family because it feels very uncomfortable to us and I ended up making barely any sense at all when I started to talk to him. I started to fear him getting angry and being upset with me...
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    Why Am I So Bad With Confrontation?

    Ever since I can remember I have been really bad about confrontation. If someone says something offensive or just plain mean around me, I will either laugh or act like I never heard the person say what they said. I've always hated this problem and I can't stand how I've never really voiced my...
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    I'm So Nervous and Confused..

    I think....I might have been wrong to think I was gay. I've seen a few women lately that have made me stop in my footsteps and just constantly sleek around them sneaking looks until I remind myself I can't say anything. No male has ever cycled through my mind in that nature.... The thought of...
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    Should having sex with animals be called homosexuality?

    Lol, I don't think so. Unless maybe it's with an animal of the same sex? That might make you a homobeastual or somethin:P
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    Biblical Response to the Rise of Homosexuality

    That was a very interesting view. I'm amazed I've read this entire thread beginning to end.
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    Sexual Temptation Driving Me Insane!!

    Have you been trying to back off your urges cold turkey? I hear sometimes it isn't easy to back off something you crave to easily if you don't have someone else out there who is trying to help you through it also. So I guess I'm asking if this a struggle noone else knows of or if people close to...
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    I'm So Nervous and Confused..

    Um, I messed up and did the M word earlier in the day. I did that without the use of any pornography though and even though I don't feel like thats any better, does it account for anything?? Because even though that feeling to do the M gets really strong, my need for porn is very low.
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    I'm So Nervous and Confused..

    Thank you VERY much for the input you all. It's slightly calmed my nerves about where my head is at. To Jonnz: I have developed some odd habits from it and I'm working on breaking them to this day. I'm also going to attempt to stop viewing porn for a month. The only thing is that I have tried to...