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Recent content by BornForHim

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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    Surely there was something there when you first met though?
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    Struggling with Covenental Love in our Marriage

    Hi John, I too am going through issues in my marriage. Not the same as yours but issues none-the-less. I really feel prompted by the Spirit to say that prayer is the key for you for sure. Each time you feel those selfish attributes starting to rear their ugly head (I've been there!), somehow...
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    We talk a lot about work. We are both self-employed so it works quite well. But when it gets onto the matters of the heart it's a bit more difficult. Saying that, I've noticed that things seem easier to talk about lately. My biggest problem is that I find it difficult expressing myself at...
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    Yes, I see that now regrettably. I wish I was able to put the clock back. How would you advise that I 'subtly' raise the issue of trust with her again?
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    I'll certainly keep you posted on new developments! All glory goes to Jesus!! :D
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    Thank you Farout. I'm already making plans for counselling which she has already agreed to. And like you, if I need to get another job to make it work, I will. Blessings!
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    I have done - didn't make any difference!
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    Wow! That's a tough cookie! Yes I understand where you are coming from tho. And I'd be willing to go through that if it makes me the man that she wants!!
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    Yes, that makes a lot of sense and is very helpful. Thank you. I'll need the Lord to help me with the defensiveness issue as I am aware that it's not helpful. Please pray for me in this. I'm also trying to arrange to see a qualified marriage counsellor with her so perhaps those other issues...
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    I somewhat agree. We have started to have 'date nights' once a week together, going for a meal or to the cinema together. It's helped a little outside the bedroom but nothing has changed in the bedroom and of course the masturbation is something completely new that's happened only recently...
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    Well, the last time we made love I did get the impression that she had an intense [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. At one point I almost reached that point before her but I withdrew and waited for half a minute to 'calm down' before we continued.
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    I've tried to ask her what she means and she says that I don't do enough around the house. But that has changed over the last 3 months and I have become a lot more assisting in that area. In other areas, I'm very open and try to understand her feelings as much as I can. If I can't understand...
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    No Antletems, I am no more worthy than you are!! I am shocked at your response! The blood of Jesus is sufficient to cover all of our sins. Believing that this is not so is denying it's power! I am just as much of a sinner as you and Jesus died for us both equally. Oh my! ((((((((((Hugs...
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    Thank you All4Christ, it is greatly appreciated! Ps. I LOVE your name! :D
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    Why Does My Wife Secretly touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    Hi Antletems, Thanks for the reply. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation and the thought of 9 years is devastating as I am finding 9 months impossible! But I love my wife so much that I can't even imagine doing that to her. Even when I see another attract woman, when I look at her I...