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Recent content by borderprincess

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    What little self esteem I had is now shattered.

    You haven't upset me. I didn't even suggest that. Open your mind to the possibility that not every person with a label is a carbon copy. I ended up this way from them abusing me. I haven't ever abused them because I am not even around them. I show my symptoms with my boyfriend, even in...
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    What little self esteem I had is now shattered.

    I really appreciate your input:thumbsup: although I think you have it backwards. My family are the one's who did this to ME, that is how I ended up this way. I am not in denial, I have never done anything horrible to my family. My whole life I have been walked over, abused, treated like a...
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    What little self esteem I had is now shattered.

    Trish, I noticed on another post you said you work in psychotherapy. I want to become a psychologist, I am struggling right now with staying in school. (it is like this for me with everything that I do) My therapist told me to make sure that I am going into psychology for the right reason...
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    What little self esteem I had is now shattered.

    Hi. Thanks for the replies. :) I really appreciate it. I don't know if my family would even understand. I have spent so much time hiding from them that they don't even really know me. When I originally told my mom I was going to see a therapist she didn't even understand why. She said "if...
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    What little self esteem I had is now shattered.

    Hi. Thank you for that reply, it really put things into perspective and made me feel better. :) Do you think I should let my family know my diagnoses? They really aren't very supportive..
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    What little self esteem I had is now shattered.

    Hi,:wave: I hope this is in the right section. If not, I am sorry. I have been diagnosed (not technically) with BPD. I know that I have it, but my counselor is not able to diagnose me legally and so he is sending me to the psychiatrist for the diagnoses. I already knew I had it before I...