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Recent content by bobsgal

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    Age gap...

    Hello all, I have done my own thing sort of....I just returned from my lil vacation and things seem to have gone well while I was out of town, he called me two and maybe even three times a day proclaiming that he DID miss me and that he doesnt want to be without me....so we are still living...
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    Age gap...

    i have decided to stay and work through this, he is having mental health issues...we went to a shrink together and she said it would not be a good idea for me to leave, it would only cause him more grief...shheeez i didnt imagine to hear that!
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    HUGE Age Gap!

    Sure thing is this...you may wanna ask him what he thinks first before you get yourself all worked up! Look at my thread!
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    Age gap...

    AngylBelle, thanks for the great words of advice, I need all the support that I can get right now...with things going the way they are it is difficult to keep my head above water, I will not go beneath, just a struggle...and I can tread water until the clouds disapear!
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    Age gap...

    I thank you all so very much for your kind and courteous advice, it is hard being in love with someone that has a fear of such and I dont want to give up!! As I have noted previously the situation at hand sort of changed...dramatically, so now what do I do? All I can do is give him my support...
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    Age gap...

    My my my, did I open up a can of worms here????...lol... Age is just a number, unless it involves someone underage, in this case we are BOTH adults!!!! Regardless of age it all depends on where the two parties are in their own lives, and as it stands there have been other issues that need to be...
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    Age gap...

    jferrell..... thanks ! His divorce was final in January and it has JUST been a year that the ex left him. Upon several deep conversations I have decided to let a sleeping dog lie.:sleep: ...he is now making an atempt to seek professional help for depression.....I think that is the step in the...
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    Age gap...

    Pegatha, uhm....there NEVER was talk of marriage, the entire topic is about dating, he is recently divorced and actually neither one of us is ready for marriage again!
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    Age gap...

    I have full intentions of taking care of him in any way possible, this is not my first age gap relationship...I have been previously married, hence this sort of thing is not new to ME, I do thank you for that input though...honestly any and all is much appreciated!
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    Age gap...

    i am taking a ten day vacaition real soon with out him, maybe that is a start
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    Age gap...

    Thanks so much..honestly dont think you are judging him, he is the one that keeps brining up the issue not me, although he may not be ready... I honestly dont think that he would have told me how he feels in the fist place, had he not been scared to lose me. I was intending on going in the...
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    Age gap...

    Flame: -The marriage ended because she left him...she stated that he was too sickly, too boring and her reasoning for walking away, she was just unhappy. Twenty seven years to just throw away because you are unhappy strikes me oddly...to find out later she was involved with someone else. -He...
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    Age gap...

    I am praying that things work out...he said that he truely cares for me and that i am his best friend...something that he has NEVER had...even in his marriage, he is also afraid that if it doesnt work out that he will break my heart. My response to that was, that I was willing to take that...
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    Age gap...

    :scratch: I am new to this forum/site all together and I am hoping to get some really good christian advice...I believe I am in the right spot! I am in a relationship with a man that is 24 years older than me, we have been friends for 5 years...that is what i mean by a relationship. He is a...
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    Im new

    I am new to this, just want to say hello and hope that this will be a good thing!