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Recent content by bobj

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    Newly Married/Disappointing Sex Life

    You said:: I lived as a non-Christian previously, having several long term relationships and plenty of great/experimental/intimate sex. Any guy I was with before,,,,, ...not a problem I ever had before. I am so disappointed at the thought of this being my sex life for the rest of my life. I feel...
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    Holidays are tough,,,

    Guys, have any of you found that holidays are getting tougher as we get older ? We moved away from our hometown 5 years ago. My daughter & grandchildren live about 7 hours away in another state from our hometown. My son later moved to where I currently live & has gotten married. I am fortunate...
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    How to step down from the worship team?

    ouch, I was the keyboard player at our church & my wife was the worship leader. We decided to step down from the position. It was very painful. We prayed & prayed, agreed on a date, spoke with the pastor, he was fairly emotionless about it. No asking us to stay, work something out. Nothing. Just...
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    How do you feel about women not wearing bras? Is it a Sin?

    women should be of modest dress. Should not entice men with alluring things. But my wife looks great in a black turtle neck & nice jeans,,,,
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    Have We Lost Something in Our Worship?

    I will agree with deadworm, it is like a concert now. I was a former church musician, and have been on more of the 'worship' side. My current church is a concert. Music is perfect, no missed notes, 4 songs sang perfect. No variance out of the 'perfect box'. Which is nice, but the move of the...