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Around April 2002 I started to have concerns about my Christian beliefs, I began noticing that the Pastors messages were basically the same, “this” represents sin/Hell and “this” represents salvation/Heaven. I was attending a Pentecostal church, faithfully, since Nov. 93.
Nov. 93 – April 02: Were focused mainly on:
Companionship
Seeking a girlfriend, finally finding one and getting married, the struggles of the first years of marriage.
Job
For ten years my job experience prior to Nov. 93 was being an engineer onboard a Navy warship and then on an assortment of civilian ships. Finding a land based job was challenging/frustrating.
Children
May 2000: As the stay at home dad my thoughts, time and attention were on them.

When bottlefeedings and diaper changings were finished for our last child things began to slow down for me, this is when I started to have concerns about what I was learning at church. I wanted to know, for sure, that what I was learning was t

Running, bike riding, reading, cooking and nutrition

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Homeskool Teacher (lol!)
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