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Recent content by bluestealth

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    Online dating profile input

    Thanks! I've got some pretty good pictures to put up too.
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    Online dating profile input

    Thanks, when I was first writing this I realized I did have too much and shortened it quite a bit.
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    Online dating profile input

    I'm looking to post my first online dating profile and would like some input before I proceed. Thanks! Opening: Looking for a wonderful Christian girl... About Me: Hey there, welcome to my profile! I’m pretty laid back and try to smile every day. I’m a Christian guy looking for a...
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    Facebook conversation

    Thanks for all the input. I've been praying about this and I'm still being led to her. At this point I'm just trying to have a friendly conversation with her, but there's something wrong with her FB account. It's either been hacked, deactivated, or FB has technical issues. Something similar...
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    Facebook conversation

    I think I did come on a little strong there but hopefully not enough to completely scare her off. I was trying too hard to compliment her and should have reworded it. Sometimes you can see quite a bit about someone on FB and I think that inspired my wording. I think I did at least make a good...
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    Facebook conversation

    Hello, I wanted to share a Facebook conversation (attached images) I started with a girl who used to go to my church. We've never met in person but noticed each other in church. She went off to a Bible college about 2 hours away so I never see her around anymore, which is why I sent a FB...
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    Living with parents

    I'm pretty sure once someone gets to know me and I explain things most girls wouldn't have any problem with me living at home, but I'd be willing to move out if it was an issue for someone I really liked. I can do just about everything around the house and it's quite possible I do more than a...
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    Living with parents

    I'm glad you liked it. I think it's pretty hilarious too!
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    Living with parents

    This is the best advice I've gotten anywhere online. It helps a lot to listen to the right people. Thanks everyone!
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    Living with parents

    When my dad is saying this he means that I wouldn't be happy living alone rather than apart from them. I tend to agree because it's not ideal living alone since you have much less interaction with others. I'd be moving out in a second if I was getting married so I don't feel emotionally...
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    Living with parents

    I just started communicating with her so we haven't gotten into a conversation about the living situation. I do think most Christian girls would be fine with my situation once I explain things. Thanks for all the advice!
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    Living with parents

    I don't have a girlfriend now but I am communicating with someone I'm very interested in. It seems like society in general (not sure about Christian girls) would view this negatively and some girls may wonder why I'm still at home, especially if they don't get to know me first and let me...
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    Living with parents

    It was OK but it was a little lonely. I wasn't dating at the time and most of my friends from school had moved away from this rural area. I had purchased some property and it already had a mobile home on it. I had moved into this mobile home and after 3 months I decided that I wanted to sell...
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    Living with parents

    I'd like to get some input from fellow Christians about an older guy like myself who just turned 29 and is living with his parents. This is not due to financial reasons as I've always worked and have plenty of money. I do work around the house and did experience living on my own for about 3...