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Recent content by BlueKnight

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    Single men being friends with a married woman?

    Just like to add my own $0.02cdn here; I would hope that people remember that an affair doesn't just mean sex or physical thoughts/attractions. An affair can be emotional as well as spiritual. When a man invests emotionally in another female other than his wife, that's an emotional affair...
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    Need devotional/study suggestions

    Here's a devotional book that's directed towards just that. It's called "Before You say 'I do' Devotioal" by H Norman Wright http://www.parable.com/parable/item_0736909222.htm
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    One year today!

    Congrats! It's pretty hard these days to last that long. Hope things continue to go well!
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    Long Distance Relationships

    I'm currently in an LDR also, and one thing I know about it - it is HARD! LDRs can create so much confusion and stress because you don't get to spend enough time with the other person to feel as confident in your relationship as you would if you spent more time together. But thankfully both of...
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    am i too young to get married!

    If God is in the center, marrying young can be absolutely awesome. If the couple stays committed to eachother and committed to God, then they will each grow and learn how God wants them to interact with eachother. Going through all those life changes together can be a great blessing if they keep...
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    intimacy limits

    It'll be a lot easier to stay away from going all the way if you don't go near it. Stopping at Kissing is a good idea. Although "petting" may not be necessarily wrong, it makes it VERY easy to slip - and in that moment, your mind will probably justify going ahead and having sex.
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    Why do people get married?

    What is God's reason for marriage? How does it differ from most human reasons? How is it the same? That's a broad enough question that might spark some good conversation I hope.
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    just for us?

    So we get our own forum section, eh? As for me, I'm in Edmonton right now...not nearly as nice as my home city of Saskatoon, but it'll have to do for the moment
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    How to deal with lust?

    Well, in a way it's both. I can control them, but it is very difficult. Physically, we both have a VERY hard time saying no to eachother. And in thoughts, we've discussed how they are going further than they should. Prayer is one thing that definately helps, as does boundaries (which get...
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    How to deal with lust?

    How do the couples here deal with lust? It gets mighty tempting to want to go further than you should with the person you are intending to spend the rest of your life with. How can you keep your mind from thinking about the things you shouldn't yet?
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    children?

    Is Thirty too many? haha, seirously though I wouldn't mind alot...as long as the wife is up for it :D
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    Marriage, God bringing man and woman together.

    But who says God doesn't use friends, family, or even a dating agency to put two together?
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    Poem: The Faith I Have Inside

    I scream in pain it has over run me I cannot let this fear enter It comes so close tempting my thoughts bringing images of doubt But nothing will change the truth I know the faith I have inside Joy fades and comes close to fear stroking my weakened soul Breath moves further that once...
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    When did you know?

    After the first time you met your spouse, how long was it before you knew that you wanted them to be with you for the rest of your life? And how much longer after that were you engaged?
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    When All is said and done

    Are you trying to wake me up Maybe all I need is to finish things off A quick awakening from where I am Will it do the trick Could that be all I need How do I get you to help me out When all is said and done It comes down to you There's no hope for me without you when all I have left...
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