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Recent content by Blondewyn

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    Age/ Right time for engagement.

    I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now, and we both just graduated from college. All of our friends are getting married or already married, but we decided two years ago to marry near my 25th birthday, and get engaged at 23. The reason for this decision is because I wanted...
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    Sex Before Marriage - YES or NO?!

    No. You shall not commit adultery. Genesis 20:14. Adultery is sex outside of marriage... plain and simple. Many people look at it only as cheating on your husband or wife, but imagine it this way: you are cheating on your future husband or wife. You can read here only about a...
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    living together/marriage

    I agree with Cammie! Money isn't everything- Forget the income and marry the man or end the relationship.
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    For Couples: How did you meet?

    Meet mine on my birthday as I was running past his dorm room to my birthday party- I thought, "hey- he's cute. I haven't met him yet." So I went into his room and introduced myself (I already knew his roommate) and told him it was my birthday. He gave me chocolate. Then, we flirted and I...
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    Living together before marriage...need help

    Grizz- want a female perspective?? I really really recommend that you do not live with this girl. Things will just get more comfortable and more sinful. basically, what is comes down to is this: sex feels good. living together feels good. sin feels good. and all of it's...
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    Pornography: I tried to forget but I cant.

    GIRL! An issue with porn is, unfortunately, something that you will deal with because nearly every man with internet connection or magazines deals with it. I recently stumbled across two books that are helpful in this arena- Every Man's Battle and Every Woman's Battle. each of you...
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    Christian Polygamy?

    polygamy means many wives. polyandry means many husbands. just for clarification. and yes, polygamy is in the Bible... but ever notice what happens because of it???????? I mean, look at Rachel and Leah and the strife that it caused. Look at David. Look at Solomon. Sometimes a couple...
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    Dealing with girlfriends past.

    My boyfriend of nearly 4 years went through the same thing with me. I have, well, a colorful past. Basically, it's a two way road. Not only do you have to forgive and build trust, but so does she. And the only way that any of that will happen is if you talk openly and honestly. You need...
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    Greek Life?

    Mr. Cheese, I agree with Shannon- there are no rules about Frats. But, Shannon, you can't really get upset if you asked for people's opinions on the matter and didn't give them the chance to really speak their minds. You must admit you were secretly waiting to rail on someone about how not...
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    Favorite Book of The Bible

    Currently I've rediscovered Ecclesiastes- and I have really identified with Solomon and the seeking, seeking and chasing after the wind until realizing the life that God has intended. It calls out to my heart!!