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Recent content by blanksora

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    Confused - in the "friend zone"

    Thanks for your input so far Paulie, I appreciate it.
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    Confused - in the "friend zone"

    See that's the thing. I feel like girls just change their mind like that. One part I didn't mention was that she said she did feel attracted & had a crush on me about 1-2 years ago when we were in our last year of youth group. I didn't think of her in that way then & didn't really show any signs...
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    Confused - in the "friend zone"

    Ofc I do. Jesus wouldn't ignore someone just because it'd feel or seem to be awkward talking to them.
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    Confused - in the "friend zone"

    Thing is...we were never going out and there never really was any 'romantic feelings'. We both just liked each other & thought there was potential for being more than friends but we just decided to start hanging out more as friends. Although we hung out together and did stuff we never called it...
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    Confused - in the "friend zone"

    Thanks man. Thing is, I'm just not sure if this means we'll just be friends for now or that she really was 100% 'certain' she can only see me as a friend and that I have to take her word for it.
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    Confused - in the "friend zone"

    Hey guys. For some context to start, I like a girl from my church - we started 'hanging out' about 6 weeks ago to see if we wanted to enter a dating relationship with each other. It seemed to be going so well, but 2 weeks ago she abruptly tells me she can only "see me as a friend". Initially I...