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Recent content by bindy101

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    what about the emptiness GOD doesn't fill

    I think you are very right I am enabling him. I don't think I ever considered that before. Also my husband is strong willed with a mother who controlled everything !!! If I even seem like I am trying to control him or tell him what to do it's a war . I have learned not tell him what to do .He...
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    Wearing jeans in church

    I was one of seven leading worship in a small assembly of GOD Church . I look at this issue in a different way than you, because I have been the one on the other side. The Pastor felt uncomfortable that I wore jeans and pants most of the time ,so he sent his wife to talk to me. I had a...
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    Wearing jeans in church

    I think you have no right to ask anyone to wear a suit. I just really don't understand why people worry about what clothes or garments you wear. Do you think you are going to be quicker to get to heaven if you are dressed to the nines ??? Really do you think the father is worried about the...
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    Wearing jeans in church

    I totally agree with you . my father used to say church is anywhere you invite the holy spirit. You dont' need a building . some of the greatest speaches made from Christ himself were on hillsides made in tattered robes and sandles right!!!!
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    what about the emptiness GOD doesn't fill

    well this is funny because I have actually thought about this ,but honestly I don't think that the easiest solution is always the best solution. Sure it would be easy to cut some wires but that wouldn't change anything my husband is also a computer genius who can fix anything even a cut wire. so...
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    Wearing jeans in church

    GOD does not care about appearances he cares what is in ones heart. I believe that is the message the lost ones of the world need to see and hear .You probably don't even know how many people stayed in that church just because the man in jeans made them feel comfortable. Like they fit in. And...
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    My neighbor's wife and I

    stickman , I think if you have to ask this question you already know that there is a problem. You may have a pure heart and may not be caught up in lust or desire. But you she is filling an emotional need in you that she should only fill for her husband. You are taking time that she should be...
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    what about the emptiness GOD doesn't fill

    dimwit you are right we do need to keep trying , although I am not feeling helpless I am just tired . raising three kids on my own is tiring ,especially when I know he could help and be part of the big picture. I thank you all because input helps me focus on the positive. Also new ways to try to...
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    husband addicted to gaming

    lady marion, yes war craft is one that my husband likes. The other is city of hero's he plays for about 24 hours in a two day span. Tell your daughter my prayers are with her too.
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    husband addicted to gaming

    thank you sweet heart that means so much to me that you pray with understanding. I pray the GOD blesses you too!!!!
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    what about the emptiness GOD doesn't fill

    both my dad and his dad share the same computer addiction just different ways. He also came from a broken family with a military step father.
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    what about the emptiness GOD doesn't fill

    all of my husbands closest friends are gamers. so I don't expect much from them
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    what about the emptiness GOD doesn't fill

    I have been pouring my heart out for 9 years ,my kids are getting older my oldest being 10 and my youngest 7 . Now it is the childrens cries that grip my heart I was from a broken disfunctional home and I do not want this for my children. In as much as I know that my husband loves them he just...
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    what about the emptiness GOD doesn't fill

    I have tried confrontation and yes with bible in hand. His reaction is anger and he tries to avoid serious subjects or he laughs at me. I have even tried anger myself to no avail. I try to limit my attempts to GODLY remedies but nothing has changed his behavior. I just don't know if I can live...
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    what about the emptiness GOD doesn't fill

    computer games like role playing games ,or xbox it's always something . sometimes porn