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Recent content by billdoolinn

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    My alcohol addiction and what I make of it.

    Check into co-morbidity and alcoholism. I spent 30 years of my life self medicating until I got help. Made all the difference, feel much better now.
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    Is divorce the sign of immaturity and bad moral values?

    And how long should one remain in an abusive relationship? Broken bones and bruises? Abuse is idolatry.
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    Need Support

    Thank you for the insight, I will carry that with me. Happy Thanksgiving.
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    The pain that non-borderlines feel from borderlines

    Antipsychotics may also be used to treat distortions in thinking and behavioral activation.
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    Narconon rehab

    They also have you command ashtrays to "stand up" and "sit down" in a loud voice, without reservation. They do this for hours each day. It's in preparation for recruitment into the church. As ridiculous and bizarre as the therapy seems, they are spread across the country and are recognized...
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    Narconon rehab

    Does anyone know anything about Narconon rehab centers? I've heard they take an alternative approach to CD therapy.
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    Is obama the antichrist?

    Now, what do we know about the anti-christ: 1. Proclaims that he is God, above all gods. 2. will control a global system that is related to socialism/communism in that the government controls food and business and the masses (take the mark) 3. No love of human life. 4. People will worship him...
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    Is a priest "father"? I'm confused

    I'm confused, maybe someone can explain why Catholics call priest and popes father? I read this it leaves me confused because I might want to become Catholic: When you confess sin to a Catholic priest and you go into a confessional they want you to say..." forgive me father for I have sinned...
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    My alcohol addiction and what I make of it.

    Oh, and in respect to the "old man fest", alcoholism is a progressive and deadly disease. If you stand to gain knowledge from an old man and it can save your life, then it's probably a good thing. Who knows, you may have more in common than you think.
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    My alcohol addiction and what I make of it.

    Step 4: Warning Sign Identification: Relapsers need to identify the problems that caused relapse. The goal is to write a list of personal warning signs that lead them from stable recovery back to chemical use. There is seldom just one warning sign. Usually a series of warning signs...
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    My alcohol addiction and what I make of it.

    Nate, look, as long as you drink and have problems, it's not the problems, it's the drinking. In order to get your priorities straight, listen to the people who are trying to show you what to do. You've relied on your internal belief system and its time to rely on an external belief system...
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    please please please pray for me I drank again!!!!! (why wont I stop!?)

    1. Absolute surrender 2. Change......everything
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    My self-esteem is really completly lost.

    I am so sorry for your dilemma, life is hard. A common recommendation from some, is too have a positive outlook, seems a bit simplistic to work when one is really deep in it and down. I think it takes work and perseverance. It's good to develop a workable plan. I think it begins and has a...