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Recent content by bgus88

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    Giving it to God

    I don't know if anyone has read my other threads in this posting category (it's been awhile) but I've had this relationship with this girl for 3 yrs she broke it off with me for about 3 months and then we ran into each other at a the store we talked and we forgave each other. I now know the...
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    confused, please help

    Sounds like he's basically using you as much as you "like" the guy I would get out of it right now!
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    Hi I'm new and I need some advice!

    My advice to you is pretty much what waxlion10 has said, if you ever get the chance to read any of my post my ex left me about 3 months ago we were together 3 years and she never let me have the chance to talk about things seriously. I am happy about that she wants to talk to you and see were...
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    I really don't understand women....

    it's been very hard the last week and I have been praying for his healing power and his will but its hard to not think about my ex. i try to dwell on other things and go out with my group at church and for a while it has helped but she keeps popping into my head. i am still confused and am...
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    Does lost love ever return?

    My GF broke up with me for what reason I don't know 3 months ago. No communication whatsoever. I have forgiven her, it's been very hard on me and the only place I have to turn is God. As mush as I want to be with my ex even after all that she has done to me I still love her and pray for God's...
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    I really don't understand women....

    If she did ask me to leave her alone it wasn't in plain english and i don't play head games. the "night" we "broke up" she just told me to move on for no other reason than that, I was so taken back I didn't know what to say. I thought to myself what have I done to her or what is it she's going...
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    I really don't understand women....

    It was a combination of 5 emails that she and i replied to each other. before that she said she wanted a break and not a break up she did not tell me why or what i could do to help. She did not tell me to stop communicating she just stopped with me. After thanksgiving i asked her cousin who goes...
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    I really don't understand women....

    I did some stuff like that but i did also ditch a few times because assignments in school came up.
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    How Happy?

    How Happy can a person get, besides God's Love? Would like to see what I can get for a response.
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    How lonely

    How lonely can a person get? I now that sounds really general. I just want to see what I can get for a response.
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    I really don't understand women....

    After treating my GF like gold and trying to understand her and love her for 3 yrs; also during and after the break up how can some women (especially Christian women) just not know how to treat a man with respect, after he has done that to her. I took her out, gave things to her (not that these...
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    It's hard

    I'm still taking it day by day. What I'm about to write is something I probably shouldn't read into, but after the way my ex treated me with the whole "harassment" email thing it's kinda hard for me and I'm more confused as ever, I just keep praying to God for Peace and Comfort through the whole...
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    It's hard

    So i've been praying about God healing my heart and restoring my relationship with my ex so we can reconcile as friends or as a couple in the future, even though it hurts not knowing if i could spend the rest of my life with her. Even after what she did to me and if she came back crawling to me...
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    Really Confused with 3yr relationship

    I'm afraid it's pretty much over for us, she's 24 and 1 of her dreams was to be a mom, now I don't know what's on her mind at this time in her life, but i'm still going to school and i can't give that to her right now. I don't even know if she's with another man, which haunts me daily. All I can...