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Recent content by Benjamin Hirt

  1. Benjamin Hirt

    Forgiving Severe Alienation And Abuse?

    How do I forgive this? "Facebook" Abuse - 2 videos (July 30, 2018) "Facebook" Abuse - 1 video (Sept 1, 2018)
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    Narcissistic Abuse Victim Trying to Survive

    Update for you - you won't like it. I'm done with churches. Turned away by at least four or five. Either my life is too complicated, or they don't even want to spend one moment talking about my ministry call. The Lord still has me though. :)
  3. Benjamin Hirt

    Narcissistic Abuse Victim Trying to Survive

    I seem to have found something here yesterday - someone - and a church - some theology disagreement, but good, Christian men helping to emotionally support. So far it is good. Am thinking of companion pet for PTSD.
  4. Benjamin Hirt

    Narcissistic Abuse Victim Trying to Survive

    thank you. I have tried to get into churches and meet with pastors. They are too far up on their pedestals to help here it seems.
  5. Benjamin Hirt

    Narcissistic Abuse Victim Trying to Survive

    hi, i want to write a lot and in clear sentences and all, but all the support i have had thus far (until I met Norman today) for the past six months has been online and honestly, and without trying to curse, i am freakin dead tired of online support. Even the crisis psychiatrists are telling...
  6. Benjamin Hirt

    The Harlot Bride of Christ

    Thus seems to confirm a public tag line my ministry will probably bear. When you have no place else to turn, When the rest of the world, the doctors, The family, everyone, turns their backs on you, Call the Sanctuary Ranch Foundation. (to be formed soon, God willing) A place to go, to stay, no...
  7. Benjamin Hirt

    The Harlot Bride of Christ

    Very kind of you. Thank you. My therapist is not Christian, but he is more Christian than the Christian therapists that threw me away before our first meeting and then violated my privacy by meeting with my wife and filling her head to become abusive to the max. The CHRISTIAN therapist did this...
  8. Benjamin Hirt

    The Harlot Bride of Christ

    Thanks. I have been in therapy for almost two years.
  9. Benjamin Hirt

    The Harlot Bride of Christ

    Thank you. I am in profane sin right now, however. I treated my wife last night and today the way she had treated me over the past years especially the way she treated me through June, (she recently told me "I was done with you. There was nothing I couldn't say to you to destroy you. You...
  10. Benjamin Hirt

    The Harlot Bride of Christ

    Wow. Thanks for the love! Yes on the wineskin analogy! That makes a lot of sense. Now I do realize this is the attack from Satan to keep me from moving in the ministry. I am abundantly clear on that to be certain. But I do very much appreciate your confirmation. I am not disassociating from...
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    The Harlot Bride of Christ

    You are right. I am NOT okay with my situation and life right now. Pastor does understand. I made it abundantly clear. He turned his back essentially. Can't say I blame him. It is a desperately evil situation. He did come pray and exorcise the house. I am praying for someone to talk to my...
  12. Benjamin Hirt

    The Harlot Bride of Christ

    Called out of town to a different part of the country. And he has been not responding much anyway. -- reality is this. Thanks for your thoughts.
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    The Harlot Bride of Christ

    oops that was a different post I think. All my pastors left town and turned me away.